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26 yrs old son.anxiety/worried/many cluster B/ short version.
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<blockquote data-quote="Brokenheart1" data-source="post: 764625" data-attributes="member: 32868"><p>It's hard to not get bitter and sad. The one thing I always knew in life was I wanted to be a Mom. I also was a single mom for while . Thought some day he would see the sacrifices I made but he only picks apart crazy things that are not be accurate. I try and have some positive grateful thoughts before I get out of bed to start the day.</p><p></p><p>Yes so true. thank you for the reminder. I think Iam tired. I have had a lot of other trauma other than sons issues that I have had to deal with... I know life is hard and unfair. It just sometimes adds up and weighs on me. Feels like it keeps coming at me. There probably isn't one issue I have not had to deal with with one person or another in my life. I find it hard to be in limbo and wonder ... That love from afar but with boundaries or no contact. Its a new concept to love him but not rescue him. but I know love is letting them fail and have natural consequences. I think I have tried to go backward in thinking of were there red flags, what did I miss ? it won't change anything but its how I process. I see that he rarely enjoyed having a meal or a trip with us. He really could care less about me. He tells me he loves me but his actions are so far from love. How do you do love from a far and keep a window open ?</p><p></p><p>My son constantly surprises me good and bad. I never know. so true. One day and one step ... I get bogged down processing all his behavior over the last 8-9 years and like " oh this is maybe why he does or did this that". </p><p> So you still carry hope for your daughter? when did you notice things going sideways?</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Brokenheart1, post: 764625, member: 32868"] It's hard to not get bitter and sad. The one thing I always knew in life was I wanted to be a Mom. I also was a single mom for while . Thought some day he would see the sacrifices I made but he only picks apart crazy things that are not be accurate. I try and have some positive grateful thoughts before I get out of bed to start the day. Yes so true. thank you for the reminder. I think Iam tired. I have had a lot of other trauma other than sons issues that I have had to deal with... I know life is hard and unfair. It just sometimes adds up and weighs on me. Feels like it keeps coming at me. There probably isn't one issue I have not had to deal with with one person or another in my life. I find it hard to be in limbo and wonder ... That love from afar but with boundaries or no contact. Its a new concept to love him but not rescue him. but I know love is letting them fail and have natural consequences. I think I have tried to go backward in thinking of were there red flags, what did I miss ? it won't change anything but its how I process. I see that he rarely enjoyed having a meal or a trip with us. He really could care less about me. He tells me he loves me but his actions are so far from love. How do you do love from a far and keep a window open ? My son constantly surprises me good and bad. I never know. so true. One day and one step ... I get bogged down processing all his behavior over the last 8-9 years and like " oh this is maybe why he does or did this that". So you still carry hope for your daughter? when did you notice things going sideways? [/QUOTE]
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