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<blockquote data-quote="WiseChoices" data-source="post: 752154" data-attributes="member: 24254"><p>Welcome I Am,</p><p>I have felt much of what you feel . My life got infinitely better when I joined Al-Anon. It took me out of isolation, it gave me people who love unconditionally, and understand me and I learned to share about my problems, my feelings and my thoughts without fear of being shamed or ridiculed .I have experienced so much growth in Al-Anon. I also joined Unity, a life enrichment center open to all denominations and made connections there .It is so important to get out into the community even when we don't feel like it.</p><p></p><p>You let your son experience the consequences of his actions . He may not like it now, and he may blame you for his problems now, but in the end, you taught him about life and how it works. By allowing others to mistreat us in our own homes, we disrespect not only ourselves but also them. </p><p></p><p>Your relationship with your son is not over, yet . People change, people grow, life teaches us. Just pray for him and give it time. Pray for the girlfriend as well. Pray for God to bless her with everything you want for yourself. This will melt your anger and send her love which will also return to you. It's a win win .I get very specific with these prayers asking God to bless others with love and harmony, peace, health and vitality, abundance and prosperity .</p><p></p><p>Sending you much love. Empty nest syndrome is hard, but you can and will get through it. There is a lot of life for you left to live. Live it and create some fun for yourself . Blessings !</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="WiseChoices, post: 752154, member: 24254"] Welcome I Am, I have felt much of what you feel . My life got infinitely better when I joined Al-Anon. It took me out of isolation, it gave me people who love unconditionally, and understand me and I learned to share about my problems, my feelings and my thoughts without fear of being shamed or ridiculed .I have experienced so much growth in Al-Anon. I also joined Unity, a life enrichment center open to all denominations and made connections there .It is so important to get out into the community even when we don't feel like it. You let your son experience the consequences of his actions . He may not like it now, and he may blame you for his problems now, but in the end, you taught him about life and how it works. By allowing others to mistreat us in our own homes, we disrespect not only ourselves but also them. Your relationship with your son is not over, yet . People change, people grow, life teaches us. Just pray for him and give it time. Pray for the girlfriend as well. Pray for God to bless her with everything you want for yourself. This will melt your anger and send her love which will also return to you. It's a win win .I get very specific with these prayers asking God to bless others with love and harmony, peace, health and vitality, abundance and prosperity . Sending you much love. Empty nest syndrome is hard, but you can and will get through it. There is a lot of life for you left to live. Live it and create some fun for yourself . Blessings ! [/QUOTE]
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