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<blockquote data-quote="tryagain" data-source="post: 601902" data-attributes="member: 14865"><p>Yep- I'm reading it again. Recoveringenabler, I cannot thank you enough for posting this. I just have one question -in this phrase,"* If you should let go of this relationship too soon, the other might change to be like the fantasy or dream you want them to be", do you think that the writer meant to say "other might NOT EVER change to be like the fantasy or dream you want them to be"? In other words, if you let go, then they might never have a chance of changing to the desirable fantasy you have for them? I know that is a false hope and expectation that I have fallen prey to so many times -that I can save my difficult child if I will just not let go. (((HUGS))) and Carpe Diem.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="tryagain, post: 601902, member: 14865"] Yep- I'm reading it again. Recoveringenabler, I cannot thank you enough for posting this. I just have one question -in this phrase,"* If you should let go of this relationship too soon, the other might change to be like the fantasy or dream you want them to be", do you think that the writer meant to say "other might NOT EVER change to be like the fantasy or dream you want them to be"? In other words, if you let go, then they might never have a chance of changing to the desirable fantasy you have for them? I know that is a false hope and expectation that I have fallen prey to so many times -that I can save my difficult child if I will just not let go. (((HUGS))) and Carpe Diem. [/QUOTE]
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