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Do others feel this way with other children too?
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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember1" data-source="post: 752872" data-attributes="member: 23706"><p>Louise, I would want my.kids to defend me too. But some just don't want to rock the boat or take sides. It would hurt me, but I could get past it. It has nothing to do with me. Your kids love you. They don't want to confront this difficult sister.</p><p></p><p>There are many good people who love us that fear confrontation. They don't do it at all costs. Sticking up for you would cause confrontation with a difficult sister. I am certain that she was a problem in the family before she cut you off. It may have seemed sudden but my guess is this was a process for her and that she was hard to deal with all along. Always has been. Your other kids may want a relationship with her child more than with her. Can you openly talk to them about it? </p><p></p><p>The healing does have to come from you, but therapy can help you do this. A lot. Please consider it!!!</p><p></p><p>Be well and try to change how you see this. Or do things differently and please be good to you and seek outside help.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember1, post: 752872, member: 23706"] Louise, I would want my.kids to defend me too. But some just don't want to rock the boat or take sides. It would hurt me, but I could get past it. It has nothing to do with me. Your kids love you. They don't want to confront this difficult sister. There are many good people who love us that fear confrontation. They don't do it at all costs. Sticking up for you would cause confrontation with a difficult sister. I am certain that she was a problem in the family before she cut you off. It may have seemed sudden but my guess is this was a process for her and that she was hard to deal with all along. Always has been. Your other kids may want a relationship with her child more than with her. Can you openly talk to them about it? The healing does have to come from you, but therapy can help you do this. A lot. Please consider it!!! Be well and try to change how you see this. Or do things differently and please be good to you and seek outside help. [/QUOTE]
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