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<blockquote data-quote="Heartbroken mom" data-source="post: 747461" data-attributes="member: 22697"><p>Have the same thing going on and my son is 43</p><p>Blames me for his lack of self of care</p><p>Refuses to get treatment was on medication that helped but stopped now spiraling down again</p><p>Is working finally but can’t manage money and constantly asking me to give him money</p><p>if I don’t then hear the litany </p><p>Well I finally have had enough</p><p>Have given loved and listened to really no avail</p><p>I now choose my peace and sanity</p><p>Blocked his calls so I can have peace</p><p>He can survive and like all of us his thriving is his choice</p><p>His failure to launch or thrive is not my failure as a parent as he would like to believe</p><p>It is because of his choices and lack of action</p><p>I have learned the only way he takes any action is when he has too</p><p>As hard as it has been I finally let go of taking on the blame </p><p>It leaves me free of suffering what is actually his suffering that is to wake him up to his own action and capability </p><p>Love is not being an enabler</p><p>Love is not being used and abused</p><p>Thanks for this post</p><p>It makes a hard road clear</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Heartbroken mom, post: 747461, member: 22697"] Have the same thing going on and my son is 43 Blames me for his lack of self of care Refuses to get treatment was on medication that helped but stopped now spiraling down again Is working finally but can’t manage money and constantly asking me to give him money if I don’t then hear the litany Well I finally have had enough Have given loved and listened to really no avail I now choose my peace and sanity Blocked his calls so I can have peace He can survive and like all of us his thriving is his choice His failure to launch or thrive is not my failure as a parent as he would like to believe It is because of his choices and lack of action I have learned the only way he takes any action is when he has too As hard as it has been I finally let go of taking on the blame It leaves me free of suffering what is actually his suffering that is to wake him up to his own action and capability Love is not being an enabler Love is not being used and abused Thanks for this post It makes a hard road clear [/QUOTE]
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