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<blockquote data-quote="Nomad" data-source="post: 764392" data-attributes="member: 4152"><p>My TG went fairly well. Sometimes it's hard in my heart that one child is missing. Recently, she was told that she should have certain supplies like a flashlight to prepare for the hard winter in the new state she lives in where winters are very cold with hard snows. I commented that we have purchased sooo many flashlights for her in the past. She then said this was my fault (omg) and explained in a bizarre convoluted way. No apologies or regrets on her part.&nbsp; NO personal accountability even though it's clearly all her fault. OMG. I almost lost my mind. How can she possibly improve with this mindset?&nbsp; She moves constantly and leaves behind almost everything. Much has been lost, almost all we have paid for including furniture. Well, nooo more. I suggested she purchase her own flashlight this time. Did your son come to your home for TG, Copa? Daughter sooo similar...always runs out of funds end of the month...at times more like the beginning of the month. It's a miracle she has found a place for a roof over her head...thank goodness.&nbsp; Being homeless seems to frighten her and this seems like a good thing. But, food has been an issue and she does have to go to places like churches for supplies. She seems &quot;unchangeable&quot; as well...heartbreaking.</p></blockquote><p></p>

[QUOTE="Nomad, post: 764392, member: 4152"] My TG went fairly well. Sometimes it's hard in my heart that one child is missing. Recently, she was told that she should have certain supplies like a flashlight to prepare for the hard winter in the new state she lives in where winters are very cold with hard snows. I commented that we have purchased sooo many flashlights for her in the past. She then said this was my fault (omg) and explained in a bizarre convoluted way. No apologies or regrets on her part. NO personal accountability even though it's clearly all her fault. OMG. I almost lost my mind. How can she possibly improve with this mindset? She moves constantly and leaves behind almost everything. Much has been lost, almost all we have paid for including furniture. Well, nooo more. I suggested she purchase her own flashlight this time. Did your son come to your home for TG, Copa? Daughter sooo similar...always runs out of funds end of the month...at times more like the beginning of the month. It's a miracle she has found a place for a roof over her head...thank goodness. Being homeless seems to frighten her and this seems like a good thing. But, food has been an issue and she does have to go to places like churches for supplies. She seems "unchangeable" as well...heartbreaking. [/QUOTE]

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