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<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 664781" data-attributes="member: 18958">I&nbsp; bought new tickets and will aim to leave 9/24 or so.&nbsp; By the end of this week he will finish working. We can prepare to go together so that i do not get so overwhelmed.Serenity as to your memorial/ceremony.&nbsp; I think life is like a spiral. I think we keep returning to complete things until we die. Some people who believe in reincarnation believe the spiraling continues and that we live new lives to continue work from past ones.I do not believe there is ever an end to important relationships. I think they live eternally. In that way the dead, continue to live.&nbsp; Through us. That is why it is important to continue trying to resolve the past, however we do so. I think the impulse to remember will be present in you over and over. There will never be an end. Perhaps you want to put aside the pain, the sadness, the anger. While this impulse may be understandable, I do not think it is either good or realistic. While we do not want it to dominate our lives, or to overwhelm us these feelings are part of and honor our lives. We need to remember.</blockquote>

[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 664781, member: 18958"] I bought new tickets and will aim to leave 9/24 or so. By the end of this week he will finish working. We can prepare to go together so that i do not get so overwhelmed. Serenity as to your memorial/ceremony. I think life is like a spiral. I think we keep returning to complete things until we die. Some people who believe in reincarnation believe the spiraling continues and that we live new lives to continue work from past ones. I do not believe there is ever an end to important relationships. I think they live eternally. In that way the dead, continue to live. Through us. That is why it is important to continue trying to resolve the past, however we do so. I think the impulse to remember will be present in you over and over. There will never be an end. Perhaps you want to put aside the pain, the sadness, the anger. While this impulse may be understandable, I do not think it is either good or realistic. While we do not want it to dominate our lives, or to overwhelm us these feelings are part of and honor our lives. We need to remember. [/QUOTE]

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