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<blockquote data-quote="Smithmom" data-source="post: 764281" data-attributes="member: 23371">Thanks LMS.&nbsp; One of my problems with #2 and 3 is a problem we all have with relatives.&nbsp; Setting boundaries.&nbsp; They move theirs and invade mine all the time.&nbsp; You'll have that problem every day with them living with you.&nbsp; Having the baby there, available to be spoiled is a huge incentive to make it work.&nbsp; You might want to set up a weekly family mtg to air problems.&nbsp; And a time limit to keep them on track with budgeting.My son, like most addicts lies constantly which bugs me too.&nbsp; Just can't trust him.&nbsp; He's also turned to alcohol.&nbsp; Yikes!&nbsp; And he's fathered a son by son girl he dated briefly.&nbsp; I hate hearing about how he's treating this baby.&nbsp; I don't want to hear about this child being deaf by adulthood, lack of nutrition, etc.&nbsp; He has no apparent intention of treating this child as #1 in his life or offering advantages he can afford to give.&nbsp; So I detach.Miss you too.</blockquote>

[QUOTE="Smithmom, post: 764281, member: 23371"] Thanks LMS. One of my problems with #2 and 3 is a problem we all have with relatives. Setting boundaries. They move theirs and invade mine all the time. You'll have that problem every day with them living with you. Having the baby there, available to be spoiled is a huge incentive to make it work. You might want to set up a weekly family mtg to air problems. And a time limit to keep them on track with budgeting. My son, like most addicts lies constantly which bugs me too. Just can't trust him. He's also turned to alcohol. Yikes! And he's fathered a son by son girl he dated briefly. I hate hearing about how he's treating this baby. I don't want to hear about this child being deaf by adulthood, lack of nutrition, etc. He has no apparent intention of treating this child as #1 in his life or offering advantages he can afford to give. So I detach. Miss you too. [/QUOTE]

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