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<blockquote data-quote="newstart" data-source="post: 764804" data-attributes="member: 22416"><p><em>New Leaf, My husbands parents were kind and loving to him. His dad was wonderful. His mom was ok but distant to my husband but wicked to all of us in laws. I was not the only one that got it from her. After that, I tried hard to 'have peace within the storm' it was extremely hard to find peace after my son died but I did. I had studied hard and practiced inner peace after being around my husbands bipolar family that when my son died I relied on the mental tools I learned from all the crazy toxic behavior from being around his family. Sometimes I am just wore out from constantly fighting off attacks, from my daughter's behavior to sales people constantly trying to rip me off, to the high crime in this area. We live in a neighborhood that has good security yet there are the most bizarre crimes. One full moon night there were 3 suicides within blocks of each other and not related. My friends are getting their purses snatched at the grocery stores and people are blowing up mail boxes right and left. WTH. We toss around moving all the time. </em></p><p><em></em></p><p><em>Copa, You posted much mental food to chew on. Fragmented is an interesting word to use. It certainly fits with my situation too. I certainly feel fragmented trying to pick up all the pieces and make sense out of something that can't make decent sense. Thank you always for your deep insight.</em></p><p><em></em></p><p><em>Nomad, My daughter (like your daughter) is the same way about an awful situation or terrible things happening to her. Time passes and along with it the turmoil and just like that it is GONE. As if why bring it up it is in the past. I heard my daughter say the other day that one of her friends has a child and the child got into his mom's credit cards and ordered pizza's for everyone. She was saying what audacity it was for the child to do that. She does not remember all the thousands of dollars she stole from her dad and me. As if it never happened. My daughter does not drink or do drugs. Her friends and neighbors have even told me so. I have always told my daughter that drugs and alcohol open a portal for demonic behavior. I believe if my daughter did mess with drugs or alcohol I would move far away and not leave a forwarding address. It seems I have to fight off the demons everyday with situations and lately with my own husband. My husband's family is even toxic to my daughter. She called today and told me how sorry she was that I will have that relative in our home. My daughter said he always made her uncomfortable and has a better than thou attitude. I agree... Of course, if I am in the house with him I will be kind, it is too hard for me to not be kind. It is actually painful for me to ignore someone, it is against my nature but it is for my protection. I am not ugly back to anyone, I just get busy or say to them 'that is very mean'.</em></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="newstart, post: 764804, member: 22416"] [I]New Leaf, My husbands parents were kind and loving to him. His dad was wonderful. His mom was ok but distant to my husband but wicked to all of us in laws. I was not the only one that got it from her. After that, I tried hard to 'have peace within the storm' it was extremely hard to find peace after my son died but I did. I had studied hard and practiced inner peace after being around my husbands bipolar family that when my son died I relied on the mental tools I learned from all the crazy toxic behavior from being around his family. Sometimes I am just wore out from constantly fighting off attacks, from my daughter's behavior to sales people constantly trying to rip me off, to the high crime in this area. We live in a neighborhood that has good security yet there are the most bizarre crimes. One full moon night there were 3 suicides within blocks of each other and not related. My friends are getting their purses snatched at the grocery stores and people are blowing up mail boxes right and left. WTH. We toss around moving all the time. Copa, You posted much mental food to chew on. Fragmented is an interesting word to use. It certainly fits with my situation too. I certainly feel fragmented trying to pick up all the pieces and make sense out of something that can't make decent sense. Thank you always for your deep insight. Nomad, My daughter (like your daughter) is the same way about an awful situation or terrible things happening to her. Time passes and along with it the turmoil and just like that it is GONE. As if why bring it up it is in the past. I heard my daughter say the other day that one of her friends has a child and the child got into his mom's credit cards and ordered pizza's for everyone. She was saying what audacity it was for the child to do that. She does not remember all the thousands of dollars she stole from her dad and me. As if it never happened. My daughter does not drink or do drugs. Her friends and neighbors have even told me so. I have always told my daughter that drugs and alcohol open a portal for demonic behavior. I believe if my daughter did mess with drugs or alcohol I would move far away and not leave a forwarding address. It seems I have to fight off the demons everyday with situations and lately with my own husband. My husband's family is even toxic to my daughter. She called today and told me how sorry she was that I will have that relative in our home. My daughter said he always made her uncomfortable and has a better than thou attitude. I agree... Of course, if I am in the house with him I will be kind, it is too hard for me to not be kind. It is actually painful for me to ignore someone, it is against my nature but it is for my protection. I am not ugly back to anyone, I just get busy or say to them 'that is very mean'.[/I] [/QUOTE]
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