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<blockquote data-quote="Worndown68" data-source="post: 764273" data-attributes="member: 28726">I sold my car in 2000 to put the deposit on a little property and hoped my then 27yr old would be able to rent it for a nominal rent, get used to paying bills and hopefully get a loan to buy it herself.&nbsp;&nbsp; I did it because her twin sister was in a relationship and engaged.&nbsp; It was a nightmare from the start.&nbsp; She became involved with a man who smoked crack.&nbsp; He moved in and his sister too!&nbsp; It became a doss house.She ended that relationship eventually so I fixed up the little single story house and added a second floor with a nice deck.It became an adorable little home, however her relationship with neighbors was very difficult,&nbsp; a few years later I found a single family home 2 bedrooms with no homeowners association.&nbsp;&nbsp; It was 2 bedrooms because her sister was having marital problems and as all involved were alcoholic I could see her needing somewhere to live soon too.Again the house was adorable and initially she was ecstatic and her and her boyfriend agreed to pay $400 a month.That never happened, the house became destroyed with dog urine and general filth.My daughter never slept in her bedroom, just lived on the couch…the bedroom was a hoarding room, full of black trashbags and unworn clothes with tags still attached?She had a couple of retail jobs over the years but never full time.&nbsp; Always falling out with co workers or her sister and posting everything on FB.&nbsp;&nbsp; Her sister did move in so I put deadbolts on both their bedroom doors because they tend to steal.&nbsp; The arrangement didn’t work out and it ended&nbsp; after a drunken fight with cops taking her away and some injury to her foot that required surgery. There is so very much more but that is enough to explain that she was thrilled to start with but had no intention of working and having pride in herself.&nbsp;&nbsp; I wish I could believe you may have better luck but honestly I’m worried for you. Hugs anyway <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile&nbsp; &nbsp; :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /></blockquote>

[QUOTE="Worndown68, post: 764273, member: 28726"] I sold my car in 2000 to put the deposit on a little property and hoped my then 27yr old would be able to rent it for a nominal rent, get used to paying bills and hopefully get a loan to buy it herself. I did it because her twin sister was in a relationship and engaged. It was a nightmare from the start. She became involved with a man who smoked crack. He moved in and his sister too! It became a doss house. She ended that relationship eventually so I fixed up the little single story house and added a second floor with a nice deck. It became an adorable little home, however her relationship with neighbors was very difficult, a few years later I found a single family home 2 bedrooms with no homeowners association. It was 2 bedrooms because her sister was having marital problems and as all involved were alcoholic I could see her needing somewhere to live soon too. Again the house was adorable and initially she was ecstatic and her and her boyfriend agreed to pay $400 a month. That never happened, the house became destroyed with dog urine and general filth. My daughter never slept in her bedroom, just lived on the couch…the bedroom was a hoarding room, full of black trashbags and unworn clothes with tags still attached? She had a couple of retail jobs over the years but never full time. Always falling out with co workers or her sister and posting everything on FB. Her sister did move in so I put deadbolts on both their bedroom doors because they tend to steal. The arrangement didn’t work out and it ended after a drunken fight with cops taking her away and some injury to her foot that required surgery. There is so very much more but that is enough to explain that she was thrilled to start with but had no intention of working and having pride in herself. I wish I could believe you may have better luck but honestly I’m worried for you. Hugs anyway :) [/QUOTE]

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