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  1. RN0441 liked SomewhereOutThere's post in the thread Grief and different Types.

    I am having what I call episodic grief episides over my dad and anything can trigger it. Just seeing his car that I got after he died...

    Oct 20, 2017 at 2:10 PM
  2. RN0441 rated SomewhereOutThere's post Agree in the thread Need help with step to take next.

    Most predators were also victims. So they need help on both ends. Having been through it, there is nothing fun or easy about it. CPS was...

    Oct 20, 2017 at 1:30 PM
  3. RN0441 rated recoveringenabler's post Agree in the thread Need help with step to take next.

    I'm so, so sorry HMB, you've already been thru so much. My understanding of this kind of thing is that in order for your grandson to...

    Oct 20, 2017 at 1:30 PM
  4. RN0441 rated New Leaf's post Winner in the thread Dazed and Confused Thanks Giving.

    ahhh the wisdom of this....... LBL, as hard as this is, it will get better. As you work through the grief and the fog of it, it will get...

    Oct 20, 2017 at 11:11 AM
  5. RN0441 replied to the thread attitudes of those in prison/jail?.

    I was at my doctor's office the other day. The young girl there has a boyfriend that is an illegal (his parents brought him here at age...

    Oct 20, 2017 at 8:46 AM
  6. RN0441 rated Tanya M's post Winner in the thread attitudes of those in prison/jail?.

    My son has been in jail / prison more than once. The first time he was in jail his attitude was rebellious, he would be quick to say he...

    Oct 20, 2017 at 8:40 AM
  7. RN0441 replied to the thread Dazed and Confused Thanks Giving.

    LBL Yes and you will have to start OVER. You've come too far to do that. We're here for you. :warrior:

    Oct 20, 2017 at 8:39 AM
  8. RN0441 rated SomewhereOutThere's post Agree in the thread Dazed and Confused Thanks Giving.

    This is so sad for you (you are probably sadder than your son who deliberately dismissed all of your attempts to help him). His choice...

    Oct 20, 2017 at 8:38 AM
  9. RN0441 rated Littleboylost's post Friendly in the thread Dazed and Confused Thanks Giving.

    Today is my sons Birthday. He is 18 today. I have canceled his phone and I have place the hand set in the family safe. He text several...

    Oct 20, 2017 at 8:37 AM
  10. RN0441 rated susiestar's post Winner in the thread So worn down.

    I also found an antidepressant was incredibly helpful when things were so awful with my son. I don't think I would have been able to...

    Oct 20, 2017 at 6:16 AM
  11. RN0441 rated pigless in VA's post Agree in the thread So worn down.

    Welcome, Miss Winter. My son also was diagnosed ADHD/ODD. I understand exactly how you feel. I want to know if you are taking an...

    Oct 20, 2017 at 6:15 AM
  12. RN0441 rated recoveringenabler's post Agree in the thread So worn down.

    You can search for therapists on the Psychology Today website and at goodtherapy.org. NAMI may be able to help you there too. Sometimes...

    Oct 20, 2017 at 6:14 AM
  13. RN0441 rated MissWinter's post Agree in the thread So worn down.

    Thank you so much! Yes, at court my son must have said thats where he would be living on release, and then the judge gave the orders and...

    Oct 20, 2017 at 6:13 AM
  14. RN0441 rated recoveringenabler's post Winner in the thread So worn down.

    It doesn't sound right that the court ordered he return to your home without consulting you. He is a legal adult, you are not...

    Oct 20, 2017 at 6:12 AM
  15. RN0441 rated Sam3's post Agree in the thread So worn down.

    This is awful. You have all my sympathy but my practical advice is to consult a lawyer about the terms of your son's release on bail...

    Oct 20, 2017 at 6:11 AM