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  1. DoneDad

    Carol Burnett seeking guardianship of grandson

    https://www.usmagazine.com/celebrity-news/news/carol-burnett-seeks-guardianship-of-grandson-amid-daughters-addiction
  2. DoneDad

    Honeymoon Crisis Rescue

    Honeymoon Crisis Rescue - Rinse Repeat is daughter’s pattern we’ve been stuck in for the past 10 years. We’re now supposed to kick in to rescue mode. Boyfriend is abusive (shocker!). This is the seventh or eight one. My ride on the crazy train is officially OVER. Wife rode to the rescue...
  3. DoneDad

    Giant step backwards

    daughter 28 pregnant again (third time, 3 different losers). She’s 3-4 months pregnant, staying with us again. Wife is locked in to this pattern as much as daughter is. I don’t want to even think it, but I’m starting to think the only way off the roller coaster might be on my own.
  4. DoneDad

    Short update

    Hi, been awhile. I do read but haven’t updated. Anyhow, daughter (28) was pregnant again, we told her we weren’t raising another child for her, so she did the adoption. That was in March. She’s back to partying, apparently has a new Mr. Wrong, hasn’t even visited her son,4, who we are permanent...
  5. DoneDad

    Update on pregnant daughter

    Daughter, 27, now due in about a month. Because of good advice on this thread https://conductdisorders.com/community/threads/pregnant-again.64118/ And ongoing therapy we emphasized to her that we were not going to support or raise any more of her children. She wouldn’t be living here. We won’t...
  6. DoneDad

    Pregnant again

    Backstory - difficult daughter, 27, been using drugs and having a succession of loser boyfriends since she was 18. We have guardianship of her 3 year old son, but it is a physical, emotional, and financial struggle. We have guardianship because baby daddy was in jail at the time and she had a...
  7. DoneDad

    Narcissist article

    I saw an interesting article that ran down some familiar behaviors 20 Diversion Tactics Highly Manipulative Narcissists, Sociopaths And Psychopaths Use To Silence You
  8. DoneDad

    Guardianship hearing

    We had the hearing for the permanent guardianship for our 3 yo GS today. We got it!
  9. DoneDad

    I was wondering...

    Seems like so many of the difficult children that bring us here are doing the same things, saying the same things. Do you think it's possible they have a forum too, where they share their best practices in manipulating parents to do what they want? :sleep: :laugh:
  10. DoneDad

    Temporary Guardianship Hearing

    We had a temporary guardianship hearing for our grandson last week. Basically it wasn't granted because the judge didn't feel it was an emergency situation. We have a permanent guardianship hearing in June. Now I'm worried that the judge is going to say, "well, everything seems to be going OK...
  11. DoneDad

    New boyfriend, daughter spirals

    I post occasionally. Daughter was doing pretty well, living at home with 2 year old son, working - not without problems, but making improvements. Then new boyfriend enters picture - she's gone for days at a time, constant lying. The heartbreaker - little guy crying saying "mommy gone." Drugs...
  12. DoneDad

    Difficult Child taking advantage of wife

    D c daughter 25 living at home with 22 month old son. My wife loves grandson. She is also having medical problems (in the process of getting diagnosed, vision problems, weakness- maybe autoimmune or MS, is on methotrexate). Difficult Child is working 30-35 hours/week at a grocery store. My wife babysits...
  13. DoneDad

    Insurance

    Difficult Daughter is 25, living at home with 1 1/2 yr old son, doing pretty well, working 20-25 hrs/wk at a grocery store, takes care of her son, no drugs or alcohol that we know about (her job drug tests so we're pretty sure about that). Her son's "father" is out of the picture. He has a...
  14. DoneDad

    Happy Mothers Day

    To all the fantastic Moms on here. Seems like a lot of the active posters are Moms, but I bet there are a lot of us Dads reading along. Do something nice for yourself tomorrow.
  15. DoneDad

    Boundaries

    I'm reading Boundaries by Cloud and Townsend (which is a great book) and one part is so relevant to what happens when we set boundaries with our Difficult Child's that I thought I would share it here. This is a quote from p. 247 - 248 of the book in a section discussing outside resistance we get when...
  16. DoneDad

    Evening guest - Sheriff! Oh boy!

    Difficult Child daughter living in our house with 11 month old son Z she had with one of the long string of losers she's hooked up with over the last 6 years (she's 24). So, after some shenanigans by loser sperm donor (he is not a father in any sense of the word), wife spent days in court with Difficult Child getting...
  17. DoneDad

    Been a long time

    Hi, I posted on here several years ago about our daughter who was 18 with an abusive boyfriend, stealing from us, etc. Anyhow, she's continued to have a string of loser boyfriends and, surprise, is now pregnant (now she's 23). We let her move back in because she's pregnant and want her to have...
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