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    I don't know If I should be venting

    It's almost a year since I've seen him. They limit phone calls to once a month if I'm lucky. Thank you. The Court System for any matter makes no sense. Criminals have more rights, kids have none, no solid care or concern to really listen th o people involved and really put an effort in to help...
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    I don't know If I should be venting

    Hopefully your nephew and your family are doing well.
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    I don't know If I should be venting

    Hi Busy. I'm fine with 50/50 custody. My sons idea is good but ex says no. Moving to another state isnt an option. I know a judge will still say he doesn't care what son says and it wont matter. I dont want the stress of court for my son anyway, no matter what. My ex kept him that was only...
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    11 year old daughter refusing to go to school

    I know Meg hasn't came back to this thread. But I agree with you all and wished I put my foot down more to my kids, others and the schools. Dont give up , keep searching and advocating. Keep trying new ways of school, doctors, learning. In person support groups. Document everything, It's hard. Hugs
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    I don't know If I should be venting

    So, it's been a while. Son is still with his dad. Permanently. Have not gone to court yet, child support will send us there. 1) Because I couldn't physically drag a kicking screaming teen to appointments and school I'll never get him back. Been almost a year. 2) Son says hes doing little...
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    WHAT THE #%^&

    Well as you all said, trust me,I got the point. Sorry for annoying and bothering all of you.
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    WHAT THE #%^&

    Makes sense Copa. Never really thought of any of what you just said that way. I feel like im spinning in circles on what to do or say anymore. To anyone, incl son. Its like, I know you all said regardless what happens with son, to improve myself. Move forward. But every time i even start to...
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    WHAT THE #%^&

    Ex and son already told me what he will and wont allow. This is all so confusing...painful and just nothing i can to UNTIL something happens i hear. 😑 Alcohol is a crutch in most cases. I agree at any age and with anyone, it can happen. Just why would you want your child/children to be like...
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    WHAT THE #%^&

    I see everyones points. On a couple issues yes good for better for now hopefully perm better. Dont know if honeymoon or what. But that justifies allowing your teen to drink with a few other serious issues? Oh, ok. I shouldnt worry.
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    WHAT THE #%^&

    Son is telling dad he has no idea on some stuff we talked about. Son doesnt remember but we did talk about it. Dad yelled at me telling me basically keep my mouth shut hes fixing him. Fixixng him? I didnt break him. I cant do this. I told ex ill always answer I don't know to both of them. Ask his dad...
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    WHAT THE #%^&

    Wasnt going to write. But found something out (i really kinda knew) why son was acting out. Not the only reason, but mostly. Son wants to overlook his dads drinking and driving and a couple other issues. Says it wont affect him...son doesnt see/understand/care what the problem is,says he knows...
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    WHAT THE #%^&

    I give up... I get son can be a alcoholic even with me. But at least im not handing him it with the keys to my car! He encourages sex but says he doesnt need protection if they "look or say" they are clean..no stds.. Threats with a belt for varoius and stupid reasons.... Ya, BESIDES the belt...
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    WHAT THE #%^&

    But i cant drag son into a car or plane since hes refusing all of a sudden. Not only does son love the freedom to be bad, besides the fact my ex drilled it into his head, he has little siblings there that had an effect on him. Theres more but i just cant tell you all. And again, deniel by...
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    WHAT THE #%^&

    No i did not give permissin to change schools. Only agreed up to 3 months and do his online school. No i cant drive and get him. He constaly told my son live here live here look all you can do etc....down graded me... I understand my son is doing a little better doing school, thats what i...
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    WHAT THE #%^&

    I tried to have a written agreement, he wouldntvsign it. So now im more in the hole. ....
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    WHAT THE #%^&

    Plus not imagining what can happen, it IS happening.
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    WHAT THE #%^&

    Basically, the only evidencevb i would get is if the judge was a fly on the wall inside his house. My wx knowsvto be careful what to say to people, how to get kids / girlfriends to lie gor him. Hes charming and knows what and how to say to turn it on others. He knows how to cover up. My sons...
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    WHAT THE #%^&

    I did and they both have been arguing with me. Can i just go show up to see him and take him home if hes willing? What if son refuses to get into the car?
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    WHAT THE #%^&

    My son quit calling and face timing me. He only texts me. Son is sovback and fourth. I told ex its only a visit. He said i can go visit son on Dec him holiday andvhave him for the summer...He told son that too Son says other issues no big deal. As far as drinking son says he wont drink... but...
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    WHAT THE #%^&

    Son just asked again...he wantsvto live there
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