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  1. okie girl

    When will he be a responsible adult???

    Here i am again. I had my son blocked but i felt bad and unblocked him. He called today needing help. He said he has no money or food and his tire on his truck needed replaced. He has a business doing yard maintenance and trimming trees. He will not lessen to me because i told him he needs...
  2. okie girl

    When will he be a responsible adult???

    Here i am again. I had my son blocked but i felt bad and unblocked him. He called today needing help. He said he has no money or food and his tire on his truck needed replaced. He has a business doing yard maintenance and trimming trees. He will not lessen to me because i told him he needs...
  3. okie girl

    Needing advise

    Haven't posted for a long while. My son went to prison and was released about 3 years ago. While he was serving his time, he met an amazing woman that was so caring and kind. When he was released, she let him stay at her home and was so good to him. She helped him get a pickup and he...
  4. okie girl

    Am I enabling??

    My son is in a minimum security prison. I have been putting money on his books for the past few months. At first I started out with $40. I am charged $7.95 for each transaction. He tells me how he needs money for deodorant, shampoo, soap and snacks. He keeps needing more money. He has...
  5. okie girl

    Son is now in prison

    I haven't posted for awhile. My son was sent to prison in February. I have not been to visit him yet. I sent in the visitation form but have not received permission yet to visit. At least now a know he is not on the streets and has shelter and food. He calls me about 2 or 3 times a month...
  6. okie girl

    What is wrong with me?

    i have not spoke to my Difficult Child since March. He has been in and out of jail several times since last March. When he text me I cannot bring myself to read it and I can not answer his calls or listen to any voice mails. It's like I am afraid to. I love him but I just can't deal with him right now...
  7. okie girl

    Detachment and Guilt

    Its been a while since I have posted. Have had no contact with my son since March. Have had no contact with my son since March. I do not answer my phone if I don't recognize the number. My son is in jail again. This time for meth. I have gotten collect calls from jail, which went to my...
  8. okie girl

    Trying my best to cope

    i haven't seen or talked with my son for about 5 months. He has called and texted but I haven't answered his calls or text. I decided I needed to stop enabling and needed to detach. This has been hard. In one of his text he said he was living on the streets. I have stayed awake many nights...
  9. okie girl

    Really worried

    Haven't posted in awhile. I have my sons number blocked and his messages are sent to spam. I just was so tired. Anyway, i had an appointed with my psychologist last week and checked my spam messages before I went in to see him. I had two messages from Difficult Child. One said "I'm so tired of it all"...
  10. okie girl

    What do I do? Need advise

    Difficult Child was arrested on July 4th. Got a certified letter today from wrecker company for him. I signed for it. I went ahead and opened, knowing full well his truck was impounded. Called the wrecker service and was told I would need to come there and get a form and take it to the jail and have Difficult Child...
  11. okie girl

    Trying to stay strong

    i have beEn trying to detach from my Difficult Child. I haven't really talked to him in weeks. I got a text from him saying he had lost the keys to his truck. I haven't talked to him. Just not sure what to do. He did ask if I could contact triple A to see if I have coverage for key replacement, which I...
  12. okie girl

    Drama continues

    I have not had any more contact with my Difficult Child, probably because I have blocked his number. He is totally out of control. I got a message from one of his girlfriends and she said she was letting him stay with her. She said she was trying to help him. She said he stole the wedding rings her mother...
  13. okie girl

    MORE DRAMA

    One of my biggest fears came true. My Difficult Child showed up at my door. My granddaughter(Difficult Child's daughter) and I left the room. My husband went to the door and asked him what he wanted. Difficult Child wanted my husband to go out to his truck so he could smoke a cigarette and talk. My husband told him he could talk to...
  14. okie girl

    NEVER ENDING DRAMA...

    I haven't been on here for a while. My difficult child was released from jail in November. He called me at 11:30 p.m. He said he had been released and he had on shorts and a tee shirt. Wanted to know if I could bring him a coat. My husband didn't warn me to get drawn back in to this drama but I just...
  15. okie girl

    So confused

    My difficult child was sentenced today. He has been in the county jail for two and a half months. I have been married to my husband for 5 years. My difficult child has stolen from him and threatened him before. My difficult child,s dad is deceased. My husband does not have any children and has served in the marines, so he is...
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