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You area true inspiration to all of us. Your kind, understanding words mean so much, and offer help and support to us all in times of need. I wish you a speedy recovery and a peaceful New Year.

Hi there, worried mum. I also live in England, and feel for you, dealing with this situation. My son also has mental health issues and although has finished university, he now sits in this room all day and night and isolates himself from the outside world. He blames me for all that is wrong...

Ha Ha, sorry to confuse you talking about my chooks. I too would not eat mine either! I am a soppy mare too, keep them till the end, often nursing them with heat pads in the winter!. I was going to give up keeping them as well, but so missed the fresh eggs every day, (shop brought ones just not...

Thank you for your kind wise words. Your words brought tears to my eyes (but for good reasons) Such true words. Thank you, thank you. I will try. PS I have chooks too. Hugs xxx

Thank you everyone of you. You really are a great source of help. So many people just don't understand. I guess each and everyone of us can empathise and understand, each other because of the struggles that we have faced. Today is my birthday and I have spent most of it crying, because I am...

Following on from this it has now looking like he is now not eating.he has not eaten in over 24hrs so I guess that is the next weapon in his artillery !

Bless you all, thank you so much for all your suggestions and replies, I will look into all of them and certainly try and find some help for myself, at least since my son is at the moment refusing any medication or treatment. For the last 6 days he has been shut away in his bedroom 24/7, and...

L Thank you so much for your reply. I am in the UK so not sure if we have NAMI, but appreciate your reply and comments. I know that compared to others my problems are small, but never the less I am still struggling to not feel responsible for this mess. Take care of yourself too.

Hi there, its been a while since I have posted here. Things have not changed that much in that time. My 23 year old son still suffers with depression and refuses to take medication. He is now binge eating which is making him put on weight, which adds to his depression as he has a low self...

Hi, thank you for your reply someoneoutthere, I hear what you are saying, and agree with what you say. My son is not in drugs, and dosnt drink either, I am sure if this. He has no car, his phone is all paid for, and he only uses Internet on his phone for messages so no monthly bill, and he...

hi there my Difficult Child just returned home from University. After a lot of previous history of depression, suicidal episoide and difficult behaviour, A few months we had a bidg breakthrough in our relationship and he started opening up to me about his worries, depression and feelings, I really felt we...

Thank you everyone. Well the Student Welfare Officer saw him on the steps outside his halls of Residence yesterday morning. She didnt speak with him though. At least I know he is alive, which is a weight off my mind. I feel that he is possibly playing mind games with me. Purposely not...

Thank you for your kind and as always wise words. I will ring the student welfare officer tomorrow, when she will be working. Strange I dread his text most of the time, wondering what disaster is looming, but when he ignores me it is even worse. If he just said I am fine but dont want to chat...

Thank you SOC Good advice. I really don't believe that he has been taking drugs of any form.. Its not just me kidding myself, he said to me tried a joint once and that he didn't enjoy it and that he dosnt even smoke cigarettes, said he had tried them, generally he seems disinterested in it. An...

Hi There, I have posted on here before about my depressed difficult child who is currently living in hall of Residence at University. He refuses help and medication and frequently has sucidal thoughts (which he tells me about) for the last few weeks he has been sending me text messages albeit sometimes...

Brilliant, says it all

MWM I know just what you mean, it is as though they can only focus on themselves and their problems. My sons makes it clear that he is not interested in anyone else but himself. They are just so utterly focused on themselves. Lets hope that eventually they will grow up/change and realise that...

Thank you all for your kind replies. It helps so much that you all understand how I feel, and know what I am going through. I have learnt so much from reading the books recommended, and I am trying so hard to see things differently. I am trying really hard to make changes, but I guess Rome...