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    Does working cures depression.

    Is working an job any job am cure for depression. I noticed in my life and on this forum that people tjat suffer from depression manage it way better when they have an job. Could it be an cure for it what do you all think?
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    Is he naive or an good person?

    SO my son instead of taking his vacation days ro visit us while an certain relative is visiting us meaning just a weekend he decided to let an newer employee take his vacation time because he needed it more according to my son. YOu see as my son has 2 jobs on one of them he is in the weekend...
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    Puppies dead

    So here is the problem at my job there are tons of stray dogs and they began atacking employees. So as someone who is reaponsible for their safety I had to intervene and I called the pound. SO they caught a lot of them but tjey found 2 sets of puppies and and not their mothers so the choice was...
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    Why does it make us so proud that our children struggle to be adults

    I had a nice time at my youngest son home for christmas and I am so proud to see him struggle so much to be independent. I should be more proud of my oldest for doing everything right but I am more so about my youngest who had problems. Do you also feel more pride towards former Difficult Child then your...
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    Something irritating advice please.

    So my youngest and the leasy succesful of my children caused some issues in my family. So for several months he moves 300km away mostly to get a job. I underatand him where we live its not a good job market but my wife is quite upset on him because he got a job well stocking shelves and another...
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    Where there any signs or you where blindsided?

    So in hindsight did you ever saw signs of your son to fail to launch based on how he was in childhood? I in hindsight I did as he never did anything of his own will only by being pushed by others to do them so it should have not surprised me that when he was on his own in college he will do...
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    So my mothers house was flooded.

    So just got off from a back breaking day in removing all them mud in my mothers house and it was so much mud. My awesome mother got flooded and of course nature does not care how good you are you will still face its wrath. But I was not alone my siblings and their wives and their children where...
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    Dog problem.

    So I have 2 dogs the breed is well lets put it this way not even the beat dog experts can not determ it. They well are born from a street dog their brothers but one is a little bigger then the other and both male. The problem is that they fight a lot and do not get along quite a lot. The strange...
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    What bothers you the most?

    So what among the terrible flaws your adult child has bother you the most? Granted the whole package makes it unbearable but is the flaw yo u hate dislike or whatever you wanna name it about you difficult child? For example for mine is his lack of ambition to improve himself basically he does...
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    Are there people who are not able to drive?

    My youngest is failing to take his driver license for his second time so let me explain we have theoretical exam and a practical exam if you fail any of them you have to wait about a month until you can do it again so if you failed the practical exam you have to do the theoretical exam again...
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    A very annoying law.

    So in my country and hear me you can not kick out someone out of the house if he has his ID your address. You can of course sue them but since the process is long it can take years. So wanna kick out someone well in a couple of years. Wanna kick your lazy disrespectful child out like my...
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    How long does it usually take for mental illness to be put under control?

    Of course we assume that the person suffering from the illnesses wants to be treated and after a discussion here I reached the conclusion that people can not control themselves during a episode caused by the illness how long does it usually takes? For addictions I found its about as long as...
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    Why does most of the learned behavior in childhood goes away when you are a adult?

    For example when I was a child I had to make my bed every morning. Now years and years after I became a adult I make my bed only when I change the sheaths. Again when I was a child I learned to share the food now I do not care if there is something I like to eat well I am gonna eat it no...
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    Can people with bipolar disorder and other mental issues can they control their actions?

    Yeah that is my question can they control their actions?
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    When your kids do everything right but do not socialize is it still a big issue?

    You see this forum deals with the issue of adult children refusing to grow up but it seems the issue is mostly lack of a job, drog use a lot of it, bad friends, children out of marriage, children when you can not even support them aggressiveness and all kinds of abuse but what when those...
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    Is the phrase nobody is gonna help but yourself true?

    This phrase bugged me now in my older years did we as adults have only ourselves to lean upon. I noticed that in the end everything I have is because I had support if not financial, emotional one I was never really alone in my endeavors someone was always there to help me from my parents, to my...
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    Was ignoring your children a bad solution?

    Now my youngest son is did not call for 4 months now and he probably will not call until he can come home. Its not the first time this happened he did the same in college. Do not get me wrong he does answer on facebook when asked if he is ok and he answers with yes. But that is not the issue the...
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    Disrespect towards parents why is it?

    I noticed at my oldest that he is very arrogant and condescending towards me and his mother. I also noticed that me and my wife are the same towards our parents but not towards each others parents in law. I noticed that many many of us are towards out parents and at least in my experience I can...
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    Do more of 50% of cases where you kick your kid out works as a solution?

    In reading the tons of commentaries on this forum I noticed something parents are that bothered by their children consuming drugs but by their disrespect their laziness their lack of ambition their refusal to grow up and join the mainstream society or at least support themselves or worse they...
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    Should I force him?

    Hello I have a 21 years old child my youngest of 2 who does not have a job or goes to college the problem is I was the same as him at his age and was I supported by my parents in spite of my immaturity and eventually I got my life in order. I got a job and I got married and had 2 beautiful...
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