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After a period of calm, I feel like I'm back where I started. My Difficult Child has just lost his job. The poor me messages have started. I feel like I have to back off just when he needs me. I hate it. If I left him in he'll eat me alive emotionally. Does anyone else struggle with the fact that when...

Hi wonderful people. I'd really appreciate your thoughts... Son and I are back to no contact again. He lives in a bedsit and couple of streets from my house. He instigated contact again in April. He wanted his family back, it was the most important thing to him etc. Within a couple of visits...

Last night was a family gathering for my niece,s 21st birthday. My Difficult Child lived with her mum, my sister for the last 2 years, he,s now in a shared house. He and I go through regular periods of estrangement, his choice. We've been talking for a few months but he often arranges to come around then...

I haven't seen my son since Christmas day. He txt in Jan to tell that it was too difficult seeing me. He's smoked weed since he was 14. Left the family home at 16 and is now 21. You know the score and the heartbreak and pain that comes with this. I know you all understand and I,m glad because...

So happy to have found this wonderful forum. I've always searched and educated myself through my struggles, so have googled a lot! I have never found anything else that has moved me like this place. So many of you have written my thoughts down. I have a feeling you will understand. How...