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Thanks EJP. I see my psychiatric tomorrow and she helps me put things in perspective as well xxx

EJP I'm going through this and much mor switch my 36 year old daughter and my 2 grandsons so I know exactly how you feel. I divorced her dad when she was 8 years old and then went through some rocky years but through it all I gave her as good a childhood as I could. I worked and provided good...

I logged on today as I'm at my wits end with my BiPolar (BP) 36 year old daughter. She makes up illnesses about my grandsons so she doesn't have or face anything and manipulates the world at round her through the BS. She hardly ever sends them to school and I think they might finally be onto her. I hope...

Boy am I ever missing my grandsons...I am having surgery today and the daughter wouldn't even let me see the boys for breakfast Sunday before I have the operation .

I am in 100% agreement about this generational mindset. Everyone's so precious. I wonder if the baby boomers created it but I don't think I contributed to it. My son was visiting for a couple of weeks and he was really angry at my daughters behaviour and told her that if she's didn't stop this...

Our journeys do Sou DSL similar. Do you ever wonder what may have contributed and/or have you come to terms with overwhelming feelings of guilt? Everybody tells me I'm not to blame. Even my ex husband, but sometimes I just wrack my brain over the past and wonder if things had been different...

Mamacat, I wrote a letter of amends to my daughter 15 years ago for her 21st birthday. The same stuff was going on with her then. It's been going on a long time. I'm sure she used it for toilet paper and never referred to it or mentioned forgiveness. I guess she thought she couldn't hold me...

For me it's one breath at a time. I'm just full of sadness and disbelief. I wasn't raised in a perfect household but I was taught to be loyal to your family and stay close. I'm 57 am doing I'm still every close to my siblings. My daughter is 36. I was divorced when she was 8 and I probably had...

I know this is an old thread but my issues are exactly like yours. I can't believe it - its as if you can see my life. The therapist was right all those years ago. My daughter is 36 and I've struggled, seriously struggled, for at least 20 years with her. Now with grandchildren and an idiot for a...

I seem to be in a similar situation. This is the first time I have decided to cut off my daughter (after she said she was cutting me off first mind you). I decided this time I'm not going to buy into it and I haven't spoken to her in 3 weeks. I normallly have my 2 grandsons in my life once or...

This thread has given me hope in 2 ways. One that I, not the only one that doesn't want their difficult adult child in their life anymore (unless dramatic changes are demonstrated). I've spent 36 years trying to get it right and now I'm learning that for the past 20 I've been an enabler. My...