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  1. LavenderShoremaid

    Really!?

    You know had we not lived in France for a year and traveled many times to Europe I may not have caught that VAT thing !
  2. LavenderShoremaid

    How to stop enabling abusive narcissistic entitled adult children

    I saved this because it just hit me right when I needed it the most. My rock bottom. My journey to taking my life back
  3. LavenderShoremaid

    Really!?

    Thanks Everyone! Yes, my daughter is 24 now. She has had 2 years to learn and grow out there in the big wide world. She wanted to be out of the house without any training, skills, experience or responsibilities apparently. All she's learned to do is how to lie, cheat, and steal. Somehow our...
  4. LavenderShoremaid

    Really!

    Okay. So supposedly daughter has been in some sort of clinic for children/young adults that suffer severe depression/other mental disorders since Thanksgiving. I get a text message from her BFF - about a week ago that daughter passed out and had to be transported to the hospital. Then BFF tells...
  5. LavenderShoremaid

    Really!?

    Okay. So supposedly daughter has been in some sort of clinic for children/young adults that suffer severe depression/other mental disorders since Thanksgiving. I get a text message from her BFF that about a week ago that she passed out and had to be transported to the hospital. Then BFF tells...
  6. LavenderShoremaid

    Update and Thanksgiving

    First the Update: Daughter has decided that she needs to seek help. Supposed to enter a facility that helps children and adults with mental issues. Supposed to go tomorrow-I say supposed because I never know anymore what is truth or more lies. Her bestie has told me she is seeking help for...
  7. LavenderShoremaid

    Update -- Been Awhile

    Keeping fingers crossed that he and you continue the journey of surviving and healing!
  8. LavenderShoremaid

    Oops I Did it Again and a Question

    You totally get this! Thank you.
  9. LavenderShoremaid

    Oops I Did it Again and a Question

    LOL Her WORK? She just started a unpaid training job at a hotel for front desk last week. I just hope she realizes if she accesses other peoples (hotel guests) card numbers...she will be going to jail!
  10. LavenderShoremaid

    Oops I Did it Again and a Question

    Thanks everyone the advice here is really helping me. Still wading through the cesspool of crap she is trying to pull me into with her. Right now I'm on dry land. As predicted today she totally attacked me online. I had to block not only her but her friend that 2 days ago was boo-hooing to me...
  11. LavenderShoremaid

    Oops I Did it Again and a Question

    I'm back with more bad news as usual. I let my daughter back in for a overnight visit and didn't remember to lock up my wallet. She used my debit card and left me with 75$. I think she may be addicted to pain medications but I don't have absolute proof. Our family is going to moving to another state...
  12. LavenderShoremaid

    Any Success Stories or Do "Difficult Children" Ever Come Around?

    It's encouraging to hear that things do work out for some people. Stay strong everyone even if it it only for yourselves!
  13. LavenderShoremaid

    This Takes the Cake...WOW!

    I had sent her her agreed amt for food and rent for the month (we agreed to this amount to keep her off the street). She "conveniently" suffers a miscarriage and needs to blow through her rent money for ER co-pay costs, scripts, cost of burial box/ funeral home/hospital to the tune of $230...
  14. LavenderShoremaid

    This Takes the Cake...WOW!

    Probably just a SHE NEEDED MONEY MOMENT becuz it's always about her.
  15. LavenderShoremaid

    This Takes the Cake...WOW!

    Okay, if you all read my story before - 23 yr old daughter stole our money, checks, ATM passwords etc etc. Thinks our names are Mr and Mrs First National Bank of. We also grow that money in our orchard of everbearing bill trees. She whines/cries and makes it our fault when she doesn't get her...
  16. LavenderShoremaid

    First Post: 23 year old Daughter Drains Our Bank and Driving Us Crazy

    She hates drugs and drug users but she does drink. I've thought she could get addicted to alcohol. My family has many alcoholics and her father is an alcoholic so it's very possible it could be alcohol playing against her depression.
  17. LavenderShoremaid

    First Post: 23 year old Daughter Drains Our Bank and Driving Us Crazy

    Thanks everyone! I check and recheck everything now regarding the information she may have gotten hold of. Do credit checks regularly. Changed all the passwords etc. Right now she is doing her best to try to bully me into giving back "her savings". Yeah, the money she stole from us! If my bank...
  18. LavenderShoremaid

    First Post: 23 year old Daughter Drains Our Bank and Driving Us Crazy

    I'm new here. Been lurking for awhile and so glad I found these forums! Okay so where do I begin? Without writing a book. Our youngest has been living away from home for about close to 2 years now. In that time she has stolen close to 8,000-10,000 $ from us. She decided she did not want to go...
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