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    Breaking Heart

    Hello, just providing an update. Just heard from my son yesterday, Thursday, after providing the money the Sunday prior. I tried to call and text before Thursday, however could not get in touch with him. I was not sure what was going on. I was also thinking that I had been scammed again. He...
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    Breaking Heart

    I will learn to be more selfish. It's hard when you are safe, warm, and dry and you believe a love one is suffering. But in this short period of time and the encouragement and guidance I found on this site, I believe I can detach because I was at my wits end. The ladies at the place where I...
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    Breaking Heart

    I want Seek and Wisernow to know how much I appreciate you both. I should have trusted your advice more than my heart. I was sitting around thinking about how hot it is in Nevada right now and how he is suppose to start a job tomorrow (hopefully it is the truth). I was thinking how is he going...
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    A little further down the road......

    Awesome! Thank you for letting me know another path is possible.
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    Breaking Heart

    Hello Grandma nearing 70 and everyone, I am turning 64 this month. I have two other children, one younger and one older than my problem son. The eldest son is doing well. He has a masters degree, good job, nice family and lives in another state. The daughter is doing good. She has a...
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    Breaking Heart

    I am really torn. The encouragement is wonderful. I just feel if I help him this one last time maybe this will be what he needs to get on track . .and pray this will be it. But I know it my heart, it won't because I have been down this road so many times. Every time I feel torn and weakened...
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    Breaking Heart

    Just read a recommended article on detachment. Also read some of the posts. Boy can I relate. I received a text from my son stating don't bother to call or text him because I am refusing to help. I do want to help him even knowing it will be to my detriment. I have not given in, yet...
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    Breaking Heart

    Just found this site. Thank you. I read quite a few posts very similar to mine. My son will be 42 in Sep 2017 and still calling me for financial help. About 20 years ago, I helped willingly. My husband passed away 13 years ago. When my husband was alive, he would tell me some help is Ok, but...
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