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    It just goes on....

    Being a grandmother myself, I can understand where your wife sits in this conflict. We just want to hold that grandbaby. You have experience and pain from your lifetime dealing with mental illness. Borderline (BPD) and NP are very difficult to deal with as I'm learning they have a weird codependacy. NP know...
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    Learning to let go

    Marlboro, Think it is hard to believe that they can be so smart yet so mentally ill. It's like they have no common sense. My husband's brother was a thoracic surgeon at 21 years old, yet had zero common sense and a raging temper. He passed away at 35 in fire. Tragic. They say there is a fine...
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    Learning to let go

    Still working thru this. I' feeling like my old self. Started doing yoga daily with my daughter which is really key for me. It helps with my stress and my body feels slow much better. Doing some woodworking with my husband as he is feeling better is able to do some things he likes. Believe it or...
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    Court problems

    So many things out of our control. I have been putting on ear phones to my kindle and listen to utube prayers or meditation to sleep. I think it helps and drowns out my thoughts at night as getting sleep helps. Thinking about you tired mama. The more I detach the stronger I am. It is painful as...
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    How to deal with narcissistic son

    My son has cluster B which includes being a narcissist. He is very intelligent and I' the type of person who looks for the best in people. The way they manipulate a story, especially if they did something wrong is really confusing. I also struggle when I see the funny, nice son because I' like...
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    Learning to let go

    Took my son grocery shopping as all he had was cereal and milk. We actually had fun. He was my old son and I enjoyed his company. He was very thankful and we just sat and talked. I had to be reminded by him, not to worry. He did not ask for anything and I guess doesn't have to. I'm still on...
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    Learning to let go

    After I posted I had to call him. First time in 2 weeks I called. I just had to hear his voice. He said he was in bed and thanks for calling. Love you. Just wondering if Im so used to being needed I don't really want to let go. Are we twisted also? Still think I'm different not so reactive...
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    Learning to let go

    Boy, he is a master. I can at least say I can see thru him. He came over with his girlfriend and wanted me to know she never 302d him and just started all this drama. If she was so scared of him why would she be hanging around him. She is the crazy one and he is the victim of her crazy and...
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    Daughter In Emotionally Abusive Relationship

    Reading your post I agree with all the comments. Learning of my son's manipulative behaviors it scares me to have your daughter fall prey to this type of person. Read about narcissism and educate your daughter to watch his behaviors, maybe she will be able to see it with her own eyes. There are...
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    Learning to let go

    Again, more drama. He said he was going to check himself in to a crisis center. His ex girlfriend come over to my daughter's to take him. Said he was too tired and would go in Tom. This was yesterday. Well, he did go with his ex girlfriend to be admitted. I'm completely out of the drama as...
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    Learning to let go

    A day or so of maybe he will be ok. Now the chaos again. Thought with this apt maybe he will land on his feet. He woke up this AM too tired and didn't go to help with some side jobs. He ended up at my daughter' who has a baby and husband. Took a bunch of lithium pills, vomited, and again we have...
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    Learning to let go

    be ok. He said there is no 302 or PFA. She attacked him while he was sleeping. They both lie so at least he is out of there. He just called and said he found someone with a really nice apt and he is moving in. His spirits are up and now I'll just pray he gets a job. On his own. Still not sure...
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    Learning to let go

    We seem to be going thru similar nightmares. My day ended with my son getting in fight with his girlfriend where the police were called. I, again was so sick to my stomach, I vomitted. It was out of our hands and she went thru the process of getting a 302 on him. I did not sleep, figuring he...
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    Learning to let go

    Today was the first time I've seen my son's ugly, hateful, soulless side. He has never lashed out at me. Pretty sure it was because I was no longer his number 1 supporter. He now views me as the enemy, at least today. Thanks for the advice on the books which I'll order right away. I feel so...
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    Learning to let go

    Son has Cluster B and bipolar. Have been trying to help after legal problems, probation, divorce, new girlfriend with mental issues. Borderline (BPD). Currently I have had Supervision with custody of son for 2 years while trying to help with custody and to get sup dropped. Son had violent fight with...
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