Search results for query: *

  • Users: lordhelpme
  • Content: Threads
  • Order by date
  1. L

    ei classroom great, what about home?

    hi it has been awhile. my difficult child is in his first yr in an ei classroom and thriving! sure there have been bumps but he is being pulled to the regular 2nd grade class for science 2/wk and now they want to have him go for 45mins every day adding social studies. we now have to redo his iep...
  2. L

    policy not to test k-garteners

    i was talking to my easy child's former dance aid who is a student teacher is k-garten class. she was told that it is district policy not to test this age group even if the teachers suspect emotional impairment. :censored:? sorry but that is exactly why my difficult child didn't get anything more than the school...
  3. L

    use of my son on petition

    grrrrr! some yahoo's who hate the principle have started a petition to get rid of her on a petition website. as a list of grievence they have listed "She also recently told the parents of children that they had to attend xxxx Schools because they didn't want them at xxxx schools. that is a...
  4. L

    ok we are starting a local support group

    after talking to soooo many moms the past mth who feel they need info and support, or just someone to talk to, a friend and i have decided to start a local support group. i just want something that will allow parents the opportunity to ask ?'s about how the system does or doesn't work, allow...
  5. L

    ? for a friend

    she had a mtg a few wks ago with-sd about her son. at the beginning of the yr they told her to get him some therapy or next time he acts out at school we might have to call the cops. he is 7 yrs old. well she has been asking for testing for 2 yrs and of course it was never in writing. she has a...
  6. L

    emotionally impaired program ?'s to ask

    well they are going to set up a countywide program for early elem students with-ei issues. this school is 1/2 away so as much as i think the program will be great for difficult child the possible 1 hr bus ride will be an issue seeing that i have to pick him up from school now(5 mins away). so my ? for all of...
  7. L

    tics

    besides Tourette's Syndrome whatelse can cause tics? difficult child will have times where he shakes his hands and arms, wipe his face and shake off his hands or he will twitch his shoulders and head. now the face/hand thing started before he started the trileptal so i don't think it is medication related. at first difficult child said...
  8. L

    if you were a easy child parent

    in a class or school with-a violent difficult child what would be your expectations? difficult child's recent move out of another classroom was based more on a concern for others safety and not on what was best for him. i know he needs a smaller class with-less sensory distractions and i thought that was the reason for...
  9. L

    10 minute physical restraint!!

    i received a letter from the principle explaining how she had to restrain difficult child for 10 min last wk. he had climbed on a file cabinet and she had to drag him down and he was kicking and hitting and he hit her in the pelvic area(she said grabbed inappropiately but really he is 6 and it was just a...
  10. L

    off shoot of 'telling' post

    some said they don't tell cuz it is no ones business and to an extent ita. but don't you feel that the more it is talked about as a whole and some of the stigma of mental health was lessened that more might be done to help our difficult children? we are like an underground society that you don't know you...
  11. L

    mediation

    i just contacted the mich Special Education mediation program. it is a federally funded program that acts as an unbias third party. i just felt that difficult child's situation of working in a small conference room with-an aid for most of the day for the next 4 1/2 wks will have to do for now but i want things...
  12. L

    theraputic day school

    well we had a bip on tues and they are pulling difficult child out of class in the morning for one on one time in an office to get school work done. he does specials(art,gym), recess and lunch with-his class. they have no come to the conclusion(like my telling them wasn't enough) that the classroom is...
  13. L

    our own mental health

    ok not to be nosey but how many of you are seeking counceling for yourselves due to the stress of having a difficult child? we are having financial issues not just difficult child issues but i am starting to feel like the walls are closing in. just when i feel like i am getting things under control something else...
  14. L

    he stabbed a classmate with-a pencil

    what am i going to do? right now i am so afraid they are going to press charges(i know just paranoid)bu ti would be po'd if i were her parents. he told me he meant to stab her but not to hurt her. she was pestering him to stop doing something and so he tried to shut her up. no excuse but how...
  15. L

    square peg in round hole

    well 2nd opinion is also bipolar. the psychiatrist is leaning towards mild Pervasive Developmental Disorder (PDD) but difficult child doesn't fit the social/affectionate part of Pervasive Developmental Disorder (PDD). she thinks maybe Sensory Integration Disorder (SID) but sensory issues ebb and flow(like the BiPolar (BP)). she also sees some adhd and that might explain why some meltdowns he remembers and some he doesn't...
  16. L

    paying for damages?

    we received another biil from the school. the first was for the principle's stupid ceramic goose($65) difficult child broke in her office after we had decided in a bip that he was not to go there anymore and toliet paper roll holder. now i am being charged $45 for the special timer they bought for him...
  17. L

    difficult child's in gifted programs

    after seeing another thread this thought popped into my head. seeing that a lot of our difficult child's have tested with-high iq's do any of you have difficult children in gifted program? difficult child was tested with-a 123 iq just shy of gifted in our area. our school doesn't have one but the area does. the school psychiatric asked if we...
  18. L

    ok now i have a medications ?

    after reading totoros post i now have a ? difficult child is on trileptal 300mg a day. the psychiatrist says we have to go slow and we told him we aren't seeing anything. he kind of blew us off and our next appointment was made for 7 wks later. now we are going to a new place and still can't see a psychiatrist until april...
  19. L

    physical restraint at school

    where do you all stand with-the use of restraint at school. the prinicple and teacher had 'proper' training on the holds to use but i have read some scary stuff lately. i have given permission but to me it seems they are having to use it too much. i think they are not managing the early onset of...
  20. L

    what are the odds?

    i was at a lay speaking course last wk and in my class of 9 adults 4 of us were parents of bipolar difficult children! now obviously i am a believer but what a sign from God that i am not alone and He is with me! one lady was a former advocate and worked with-the state Special Education before a car accident 8 yrs...
Top