Jonbaldbg
New Member
Yup. I work very part-time. I own a commercial building which I tend to. I have the remains of a business I sold that I tend to. I play for my church on Wednesday nights and Sundays. I'm semi-retired, but I have worked hard all my life. My wife works hard as a Special Education teacher. Our son needs 25-30 hours a week because he has applied for disability at my suggestion and suggestions from friends who know him well. He has disability lawyers guiding him through the process which is going to be a long one.Sorry, I misunderstood. I thought you were serious there. It's not like I never said, "A boy needs to go out and have some fun." But there comes a time after all...
See...that was always a sticking point with my husband and I. We were of the opinion that if you only work 10 hours a week...you've got 30 more hours to look for work and you need to be putting in EXTREME effort. So yeah, that has to be sticking in your craw too. I gather you work full-time, so it must be awful to see him not trying very hard.
I agree...don't leave the wife alone with the fall-out. Status quo is good until you get back. I'm sorry you have to deal with it at all.
The bottom line is 25-30 hours a week at $9 an hour would easily pay his bills according to the house rules we set up when he got out of rehab, but he won't adhere. He's even dropped out of AA after his sponsor fired him. "AA doesn't address my particular set of problems."
So that is the situation, limbo for now, but still freakin' stressful.