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<blockquote data-quote="RN0441" data-source="post: 727745" data-attributes="member: 15032"><p>LBL</p><p></p><p>Always with you - I have been out of town then back to work to hundreds of emails.</p><p></p><p>I saw my therapist last night for the first in a few months. I have had some time to reflect on the last seven years of my life since our son started using drugs. I talked to my therapist about it. </p><p></p><p>I have so much trouble knowing how to deal with all the pain and betrayal that he caused us. I am so angry. She reminded me that he has been, and is still in, a drug fog. He doesn't even know that he caused pain. </p><p></p><p>When they are using drugs they DO NOT CARE ABOUT ANYONE, ANYTHING. THEY DO NOT CARE ABOUT THEMSELVES. This means they do not care about their future or any consequences. It is so very very hard to understand this. I know. I struggle with it. How could he just not care???</p><p></p><p>You are a great momma and love your son to infinity. You know this and he <em>knows </em>this! He is making all the wrong choices right now. Maybe jail is what needs to happen. This time if it happens you can have a clear head and heart. You tried it the other way and he is not strong enough to change on his own. The rehab bed is a goal that seems unattainable right now or in the near future because he is sabotaging this choice.</p><p></p><p>You have gotten great advice and support here. You are very strong and I do hope that this comes to a head very soon so that he can begin the journey of sobriety.</p><p></p><p>BIG HUGS.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="RN0441, post: 727745, member: 15032"] LBL Always with you - I have been out of town then back to work to hundreds of emails. I saw my therapist last night for the first in a few months. I have had some time to reflect on the last seven years of my life since our son started using drugs. I talked to my therapist about it. I have so much trouble knowing how to deal with all the pain and betrayal that he caused us. I am so angry. She reminded me that he has been, and is still in, a drug fog. He doesn't even know that he caused pain. When they are using drugs they DO NOT CARE ABOUT ANYONE, ANYTHING. THEY DO NOT CARE ABOUT THEMSELVES. This means they do not care about their future or any consequences. It is so very very hard to understand this. I know. I struggle with it. How could he just not care??? You are a great momma and love your son to infinity. You know this and he [I]knows [/I]this! He is making all the wrong choices right now. Maybe jail is what needs to happen. This time if it happens you can have a clear head and heart. You tried it the other way and he is not strong enough to change on his own. The rehab bed is a goal that seems unattainable right now or in the near future because he is sabotaging this choice. You have gotten great advice and support here. You are very strong and I do hope that this comes to a head very soon so that he can begin the journey of sobriety. BIG HUGS. [/QUOTE]
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