SWOT. This is a cryptic post.I know there will always be a lot of anger on Sundays, after disappointing Saturday nights. After all, others are at fault for the sadness. Not all are capable of believing the blame lies in one's self.
Rainy days and Sundays always bring some lonely people down. Lonliness must be a terrible place. I really wish nobody had to feel it. The old song "Eleanor Rigby" is a heartbreaker.
You're right. Blaming myself I guess is my addiction *one of them. It just still feels that there had to have been a way to do this right. I suffered so much when my mother died. It will have been five years pretty soon.Could you have gotten along well with your family AND kept your integrity? Been yourself? Had ANY self esteem?
My mother had tremendous coping skills about most things, except inter-personally. She had very specific rules with people. Her needs first. Only that.I cant speak for your mother, but mine had no coping skills
Not really. I think they would hate each other. People like them need a submissive, need a patsy.They are over the top control freaks who will do anything to get their win. They would probably get along well, plot well together.
My mother said this and I did not believe her. She thought my sister had deep envy for me, jealousy, and a sense of inferiority to me. I did not see it. But I think you are right. I think their main gripe is that we have ourselves. We have our integrity.So they reach too far, in their sick minds, to teach us a lesson about living better lives than them, making better choices. They are angry about that. Dare I say jealous?
So, yes.jealousy but it is a big part.
Mine too.She has been almost evil.
My sister did almost the identical thing.divorce her ex if his rich farher did not help them buy this huge new construction.