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<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 737802" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p>SWOT. This is a cryptic post.</p><p></p><p>Are you reading your sister's social media? If so, why go there?</p><p></p><p>Everything in your life is coming up roses. Your new home. Your animals. Your children. Your marriage. Your friends and support network. </p><p></p><p>Your early life and family served a very important purpose. They made you who you chose to become. Without that nexus, the future possibilities would not have been launched. You created your life out of a bed of thorns. Own your life.</p><p></p><p>If you are reading your sisters posts it can only be to punish yourself: Why?</p><p></p><p>To pay a pound of flesh. Yours. This is what your early life taught you to do. To punish yourself, in order that your sister and mother, not feel so damaged. You did this, we did this, so that we would not feel important or worthy. Why? Because if we did we would feel rage at the people who did this to us. We could not afford that rage. We were little tiny girls. They were all we had.</p><p></p><p>Now. Not so.</p><p></p><p>When we go to this dark place now, it is us who go there. They do not do this to us. We choose it. And as quickly as we wish we can un-choose it and go to the light.</p><p></p><p>Right now you are complying. You are complying with your mother. You are complying with your sister. Stop it. It does not help them. It does not help you for sure. Stop it. It is a legacy of a sad past, that does not any longer exist, except in our memory. But we are crafting new memories. Little by little.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 737802, member: 18958"] SWOT. This is a cryptic post. Are you reading your sister's social media? If so, why go there? Everything in your life is coming up roses. Your new home. Your animals. Your children. Your marriage. Your friends and support network. Your early life and family served a very important purpose. They made you who you chose to become. Without that nexus, the future possibilities would not have been launched. You created your life out of a bed of thorns. Own your life. If you are reading your sisters posts it can only be to punish yourself: Why? To pay a pound of flesh. Yours. This is what your early life taught you to do. To punish yourself, in order that your sister and mother, not feel so damaged. You did this, we did this, so that we would not feel important or worthy. Why? Because if we did we would feel rage at the people who did this to us. We could not afford that rage. We were little tiny girls. They were all we had. Now. Not so. When we go to this dark place now, it is us who go there. They do not do this to us. We choose it. And as quickly as we wish we can un-choose it and go to the light. Right now you are complying. You are complying with your mother. You are complying with your sister. Stop it. It does not help them. It does not help you for sure. Stop it. It is a legacy of a sad past, that does not any longer exist, except in our memory. But we are crafting new memories. Little by little. [/QUOTE]
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