Sunshineaftertherain
New Member
Hi all...we seriously need advise!
Our 17 yr old son stays in his own flat because we couldnt live with his behaviour anymore....he came to visit at our home yesterday...he had a nice time alone, while me and hubby and little brother went out with granddad.
At the end of the day he Uber to his own flat....later in evening we found this surprize in our bathroom...he left 2 heavily soiled underwear in the white bucket ( we keep there if he needs to wash anything out).........
He sometimes do still soil his pants ( professionals cant find any cause..)
...when we phoned him he only said sorry, he forgot....but this isnt the first time he does this...he went on and on about we not showing enough love towards him...but I reminded him that its difficult to show love if he disrespects us in this way...my hubby had to wash his underwear yesterday, its horrible. How would you suggest we handle this situation, what would be a suitible consequence, any advice would be appreciated please.
Our 17 yr old son stays in his own flat because we couldnt live with his behaviour anymore....he came to visit at our home yesterday...he had a nice time alone, while me and hubby and little brother went out with granddad.
At the end of the day he Uber to his own flat....later in evening we found this surprize in our bathroom...he left 2 heavily soiled underwear in the white bucket ( we keep there if he needs to wash anything out).........
He sometimes do still soil his pants ( professionals cant find any cause..)
...when we phoned him he only said sorry, he forgot....but this isnt the first time he does this...he went on and on about we not showing enough love towards him...but I reminded him that its difficult to show love if he disrespects us in this way...my hubby had to wash his underwear yesterday, its horrible. How would you suggest we handle this situation, what would be a suitible consequence, any advice would be appreciated please.