I'm new here and definitely need advise and encouragement. Will be leaving for home once my daughter allows me to. How bad is that ?How bad am I allowing her control of me? I do it for grandkids but is that even healthy for them to see? I can't let go or my daughter and 3 grandkids 10, 7 and 5 will be homeless. I pay for everything for them, apartment, utilities, groceries etc. I can't afford it much longer. How do I cope and how can I make it all better?