Last time i posted my son was getting out of jail and i had set firm boundaries. Laughable. I ended up spending several thousand dollars to house and clothe him until he could find a job. He was taking medications and not drinking trying to please his girlfriend. Finally found a job which required him to travel stayed out for about a month. Got a toothache i took him medications he stayed with it. Girlfriend dumped him he didn't handle it well. Got off . came home she let him take her on a date and then apparently dumped him again. He was supposed to go to court about child support. Didn't but asked me for a ride then wouldn't talk except to refuse to get out of my car. I parked and went in my house he slept in my car all day. Had to go to the bathroom i let him in. Won't come out of bedroom been sleeping for last night and all day. Doesn't talk but a few words irritable. I am avoiding. Won't eat gave him drinks because i was afraid of dehydration. Have told him he can go down and get food. Nope! Have no idea how to get him out without a scene. My fault didn't hold my boundaries because i felt sorry for him. He probably drank or worse and then got stupid but he had been trying so hard. Everytime he gets a serious girlfriend it ends and everything falls apart. I am so tired.