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<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 753004" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p>I have a bad migraine so must cut this post short.</p><p></p><p>I think our kids have lose screws. I think they have gone partially nuts. I think this is one reason I go so crazy around my son because he keeps acting so weird. So off the reservation. This (formerly) gorgeous, charming, intelligent young man, has turned himself loco, by indulging every weird thought, impulse that comes his way. So that now there's no core logic or reasoning that can serve as anchor.</p><p></p><p>I don't think their intent *usually, is to cause us agony or distress. But I do think they want to manipulate us, and do not have any stops, as to what is appropriate or beyond the pale. Our welfare doesn't factor in.</p><p></p><p>I also think their moral compass is broken. I believe it's fixable, but I believe it's on the fritz.</p><p></p><p>For reasons you've illustrated I think this is why I find being around my son so painful. I can feel it's still him but it's like looking at him behind wavy glass. My own son has gotten creases in his face, (let alone his low, low weight) that I don't have and I am decades older. This causes me deep pain.</p><p></p><p>I feel the physical urge to fix him. I mean to pick up the pieces and put Humpty Dumpty back together again. And there is not one thing I can do.</p><p></p><p>I do get it, New Leaf. I am sorry. I think you might think about keeping Rain far away for now. She's not reliable or safe, until she can keep herself safe.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 753004, member: 18958"] I have a bad migraine so must cut this post short. I think our kids have lose screws. I think they have gone partially nuts. I think this is one reason I go so crazy around my son because he keeps acting so weird. So off the reservation. This (formerly) gorgeous, charming, intelligent young man, has turned himself loco, by indulging every weird thought, impulse that comes his way. So that now there's no core logic or reasoning that can serve as anchor. I don't think their intent *usually, is to cause us agony or distress. But I do think they want to manipulate us, and do not have any stops, as to what is appropriate or beyond the pale. Our welfare doesn't factor in. I also think their moral compass is broken. I believe it's fixable, but I believe it's on the fritz. For reasons you've illustrated I think this is why I find being around my son so painful. I can feel it's still him but it's like looking at him behind wavy glass. My own son has gotten creases in his face, (let alone his low, low weight) that I don't have and I am decades older. This causes me deep pain. I feel the physical urge to fix him. I mean to pick up the pieces and put Humpty Dumpty back together again. And there is not one thing I can do. I do get it, New Leaf. I am sorry. I think you might think about keeping Rain far away for now. She's not reliable or safe, until she can keep herself safe. [/QUOTE]
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