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<blockquote data-quote="Overwhelmed1" data-source="post: 756553" data-attributes="member: 24921"><p>My daughters response when I asked her about trying to use my debit card.</p><p>Mom when you were here I asked and you said OK. This happens everytime. I said it wouldnt come out for 2 weeks.. granddaughter was sitting right there. I don't know why you make it your mission to try and make me suffer. You know I have to pay it and i even said i will pay that and if you dont want to send anything fine I will use it for that. You knew too.</p><p>I wonder if you realize you treat me exactly the way your mom treats you. What does it matter if you send me 3 or I pay 200 to something I have to have and then you only give 100? I tried to remind you yesterday they called and said they tried to run it but you hung up and never called back.</p><p>(I told her I was at work and needing to get on a conference call)</p><p>I did you dont listen to me! You said it all hadnt come out and they hadnt run it yet anyway? That's why I called yesterday? Dont blame me.</p><p></p><p>My response to my daughter.</p><p>Things are going to change here at home and there. I'm sorry but all of this is effecting my health.</p><p>Like I said before I will pay until the lease is up and then you need to find a place you can go. I have been getting help and my first step is to stop enabling my children. So I am. I was told if I don't do something I'm not going to be around to help anyone. I have to take care if myself.</p><p></p><p>This response from my daughter is actually very nice compared to most. I am preparing for the more violent text after she has time to realize what is happening.</p><p></p><p>Next step, telling my son he has until the end of May to be out. I am a little more nervous since he lives with me. But I plan on telling him this weekend. Wish me success.</p><p></p><p>This will be my Birthday gift to myself!!!</p><p></p><p>I feel good about my decision but very worried about the grandkids. Please keep them in your prayers.</p><p></p><p>I know I keep repeating myself but I can't say it enough how much you all mean to me. Thank you for being the awesome people you are.</p><p></p><p>Peace and Love</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Overwhelmed1, post: 756553, member: 24921"] My daughters response when I asked her about trying to use my debit card. Mom when you were here I asked and you said OK. This happens everytime. I said it wouldnt come out for 2 weeks.. granddaughter was sitting right there. I don't know why you make it your mission to try and make me suffer. You know I have to pay it and i even said i will pay that and if you dont want to send anything fine I will use it for that. You knew too. I wonder if you realize you treat me exactly the way your mom treats you. What does it matter if you send me 3 or I pay 200 to something I have to have and then you only give 100? I tried to remind you yesterday they called and said they tried to run it but you hung up and never called back. (I told her I was at work and needing to get on a conference call) I did you dont listen to me! You said it all hadnt come out and they hadnt run it yet anyway? That's why I called yesterday? Dont blame me. My response to my daughter. Things are going to change here at home and there. I'm sorry but all of this is effecting my health. Like I said before I will pay until the lease is up and then you need to find a place you can go. I have been getting help and my first step is to stop enabling my children. So I am. I was told if I don't do something I'm not going to be around to help anyone. I have to take care if myself. This response from my daughter is actually very nice compared to most. I am preparing for the more violent text after she has time to realize what is happening. Next step, telling my son he has until the end of May to be out. I am a little more nervous since he lives with me. But I plan on telling him this weekend. Wish me success. This will be my Birthday gift to myself!!! I feel good about my decision but very worried about the grandkids. Please keep them in your prayers. I know I keep repeating myself but I can't say it enough how much you all mean to me. Thank you for being the awesome people you are. Peace and Love [/QUOTE]
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