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<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 756676" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p>Congratulations OW. I am happy for you that you've taken control of your life and home. I have one bit of counsel. I would not confront them at all, which includes not advising them you will be calling the police. Your son will experience this as a threat. He will escalate. He will have the advantage if you notify him in advance that you will be getting backup. Especially backup that threatens to put him in jail. He will do whatever he can to stop you. I fear he will hurt you or terrorize you.</p><p></p><p>I agree. If there is any confrontation, threat, yelling, property damage,<u> CALL THE POLICE immediately</u>. But do this secretly. Do not tell them that you are going to do it. Just walk away, lock your bedroom door, and call 911. Don't tell your son or the girlfriend you're considering calling the police! Just do it.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 756676, member: 18958"] Congratulations OW. I am happy for you that you've taken control of your life and home. I have one bit of counsel. I would not confront them at all, which includes not advising them you will be calling the police. Your son will experience this as a threat. He will escalate. He will have the advantage if you notify him in advance that you will be getting backup. Especially backup that threatens to put him in jail. He will do whatever he can to stop you. I fear he will hurt you or terrorize you. I agree. If there is any confrontation, threat, yelling, property damage,[U] CALL THE POLICE immediately[/U]. But do this secretly. Do not tell them that you are going to do it. Just walk away, lock your bedroom door, and call 911. Don't tell your son or the girlfriend you're considering calling the police! Just do it. [/QUOTE]
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