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<blockquote data-quote="Deni D" data-source="post: 760997" data-attributes="member: 22840"><p>Could be he's doing that but...</p><p></p><p></p><p>he's putting his "relapse" in your lap which pretty much seems it's not something that might happen but has happened</p><p></p><p></p><p>Very upside down words from him. When it's inside out and upside down it's drugs and or mental illness. There is not one reason someone can't change their address unless they are hiding and if he is hiding from people who may do him harm then he's okay with them showing up at your house and doing you harm. </p><p></p><p>He could get a po box at the very least, contrary to what most people believe even a drivers license legally can be addressed to a po box. </p><p></p><p></p><p>This is very serious, he wants you to be afraid that he may show up and physically harm you. I don't know, maybe he's just full of crap, or maybe he is not. If my son had ever said anything like this to me, he's never been physical with anyone, but has actually been psychotic, I'd be contacting the police for a restraining order, getting out of dodge and finding somewhere else to live until things were under control. Only you know if your son is prone to getting physical or may just do it for the first time. At the very least, your son is begging for a reality check.</p><p></p><p></p><p>Are you hoping this is true, that he's only trying to intimidate you with words to get you in line or are sure he's full of it? He's a grown middle aged man, so not knowing him at all, from out here on the internet it seems like he's dangerous. </p><p></p><p>I know it's hard hearing from someone else that things might be more serious than what we think. We get used to dealing with the unacceptable, little by little, so we might not judge a situation as well as we should. </p><p></p><p>Seems to me he's raised the bar with that threat to you. And yeah, I know if you respond like someone would with intervention against his threat his resulting likely "relapse" will be blamed on you but at 36 years old, oye! I think you need some professional help with this situation. </p><p></p><p>I hope you can work though this safely and get some peace.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Deni D, post: 760997, member: 22840"] Could be he's doing that but... he's putting his "relapse" in your lap which pretty much seems it's not something that might happen but has happened Very upside down words from him. When it's inside out and upside down it's drugs and or mental illness. There is not one reason someone can't change their address unless they are hiding and if he is hiding from people who may do him harm then he's okay with them showing up at your house and doing you harm. He could get a po box at the very least, contrary to what most people believe even a drivers license legally can be addressed to a po box. This is very serious, he wants you to be afraid that he may show up and physically harm you. I don't know, maybe he's just full of crap, or maybe he is not. If my son had ever said anything like this to me, he's never been physical with anyone, but has actually been psychotic, I'd be contacting the police for a restraining order, getting out of dodge and finding somewhere else to live until things were under control. Only you know if your son is prone to getting physical or may just do it for the first time. At the very least, your son is begging for a reality check. Are you hoping this is true, that he's only trying to intimidate you with words to get you in line or are sure he's full of it? He's a grown middle aged man, so not knowing him at all, from out here on the internet it seems like he's dangerous. I know it's hard hearing from someone else that things might be more serious than what we think. We get used to dealing with the unacceptable, little by little, so we might not judge a situation as well as we should. Seems to me he's raised the bar with that threat to you. And yeah, I know if you respond like someone would with intervention against his threat his resulting likely "relapse" will be blamed on you but at 36 years old, oye! I think you need some professional help with this situation. I hope you can work though this safely and get some peace. [/QUOTE]
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