"Embracing people and things as they are" By Daniel A. Miller I am starting to read about acceptance, even if we don't like what we need to accept in order to be calm. This is the best book I ever read on the topic and has changed my entire attitude about Kay, other people and even life and the world. I highly recommend it, especially for those who suffer because their child is in a bad way. This one book has made me see Kay, my life, friends and even what saddens me about the world in a new way. I carry it with me like a second Bible. I bought it off Amazon. Be well.