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Can you forgive him forever?
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<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 742355" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p>I have to go to sleep but this is addictive. I will say goodbye after this post.</p><p></p><p>What is this? Do you feel guilty enjoying your life and being secure, when he is not? Why? (It takes one to know one.)</p><p></p><p>Of course you deserve a satisfying, secure and comfortable life of dignity. I do too.</p><p></p><p>This is the question that I struggle with. How can I prosper, when he is on the street? I couldn't. But now I found some strength in myself, that I did not know before. I see that if I make a boundary, and then in my heart, hold onto hope, I can begin to nurture myself.</p><p></p><p>I studied a tiny bit of Kabbalah and I wish I knew more. There is the concept of gevurah. Boundaries. (I am not so good with boundaries.) So. I fell apart when I made a boundary. But the thing I wish I could remember right now...it is that boundaries free us up so that we can achieve something even greater, and stronger and more beautiful. They help us manifest goodness in a stronger and more essential way. What I am trying to say, is that I feel that now. I feel more able to deal with the risk, to hold the risk. And that is a good thing. I will, unfortunately for me, go to try to find that concept. But I will not get back to you tonight.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 742355, member: 18958"] I have to go to sleep but this is addictive. I will say goodbye after this post. What is this? Do you feel guilty enjoying your life and being secure, when he is not? Why? (It takes one to know one.) Of course you deserve a satisfying, secure and comfortable life of dignity. I do too. This is the question that I struggle with. How can I prosper, when he is on the street? I couldn't. But now I found some strength in myself, that I did not know before. I see that if I make a boundary, and then in my heart, hold onto hope, I can begin to nurture myself. I studied a tiny bit of Kabbalah and I wish I knew more. There is the concept of gevurah. Boundaries. (I am not so good with boundaries.) So. I fell apart when I made a boundary. But the thing I wish I could remember right now...it is that boundaries free us up so that we can achieve something even greater, and stronger and more beautiful. They help us manifest goodness in a stronger and more essential way. What I am trying to say, is that I feel that now. I feel more able to deal with the risk, to hold the risk. And that is a good thing. I will, unfortunately for me, go to try to find that concept. But I will not get back to you tonight. [/QUOTE]
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