Ughh! So over it. Son is using my Dad's car in return for paying my Dad's insurance. Rules about the car. I rode to gym with him today. He wanted to roll both windows down. As we rode, I smelled smoke. I told him. He lied, of course. Said he would not break any hard rules .Something pink smeared in passenger seat. He said he would clean tath up .so my kids rode around , bought alcohol and smoked in car while I was gone. I said I needed him to make the deal with the bank asap because I did not want to continue to supervise the car and once it was his he could do whatever he wanted with car. I set a deadline for 12-31 for him to secure a loan and get the car in his name . I really feel like taking the keys. BUT then I have to take him to work . It was a mistake to help him with this car .I talked to my Dad about it and I thought up the plan. Never again!