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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember1" data-source="post: 761446" data-attributes="member: 23706"><p>I have heard my own daughter say those hateful things about both of us and have also heard from friends that their usually struggling adult kid is trying to gaslight them into believing that their crappy choices are the result of the parents "abusive" parenting. It's becoming commonplace for adult kids to divorce their parents and it sucks and is domestic abuse of child to parent.</p><p></p><p>Think the truth. Did your husband beat the kids? Did he starve them? Give no help to them toward being able to have better lives? Did he demean them day and night?</p><p></p><p>Or does your husband maybe just realize that his sons are not doing well and does not want to help them if they won't help themselves?</p><p></p><p>I almost gave up my husband for my abusive daughter. I am so grateful I did not. Guess who will be there for me for the rest of my life? Not my daughter. I will chime in that I agree that that I would.not see my.kids if they won't see my husband. Bulls***t to that. We are a team.</p><p></p><p>None of this was your fault. You did not need to apologize. Your son is being a jerk.</p><p></p><p>Please continue Nar anon. See a therapist. Do not allow your son to come between you and your husband. Son should not have that kind of power over you. As for the baby, if he uses him as blackmail now he will do it again. You can't win with that.</p><p></p><p>And do get the gifts back.</p><p></p><p>If God is in your life give the situation to God and go with life's flow.</p><p></p><p>I wish you peace and love.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember1, post: 761446, member: 23706"] I have heard my own daughter say those hateful things about both of us and have also heard from friends that their usually struggling adult kid is trying to gaslight them into believing that their crappy choices are the result of the parents "abusive" parenting. It's becoming commonplace for adult kids to divorce their parents and it sucks and is domestic abuse of child to parent. Think the truth. Did your husband beat the kids? Did he starve them? Give no help to them toward being able to have better lives? Did he demean them day and night? Or does your husband maybe just realize that his sons are not doing well and does not want to help them if they won't help themselves? I almost gave up my husband for my abusive daughter. I am so grateful I did not. Guess who will be there for me for the rest of my life? Not my daughter. I will chime in that I agree that that I would.not see my.kids if they won't see my husband. Bulls***t to that. We are a team. None of this was your fault. You did not need to apologize. Your son is being a jerk. Please continue Nar anon. See a therapist. Do not allow your son to come between you and your husband. Son should not have that kind of power over you. As for the baby, if he uses him as blackmail now he will do it again. You can't win with that. And do get the gifts back. If God is in your life give the situation to God and go with life's flow. I wish you peace and love. [/QUOTE]
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