***Circle of Support for Our Fran***

Discussion in 'The Watercooler' started by Suz, May 27, 2011.

  1. Rabbit

    Rabbit Member

    Sending hugs and prayers from MD.
     
  2. Fran

    Fran Former desparate mom

    Thank you so much everyone.
    I just had a chance to log on and it feels like a warm and comfortable blanket to see you here with such good thoughts.
    My mom wanted to die in her home. She was going to do it her way up to the end. LOL. Today she was in her home with 2 of her daughters.
    My siblings and husband are all gathering to mourn and grieve with lots of tears and even more laughter and stories.
    Thank you again, my board friends.
     
  3. Wiped Out

    Wiped Out Well-Known Member Staff Member

    Fran,
    I'm so sorry for your loss. Your mom was a very strong lady. I'm glad she was in her home when it happened as she had wanted. Your family, including your mom have been in my daily prayers. I'm glad you are able to share laughter and stories at this time among the tears. Gentle hugs.
     
  4. svengandhi

    svengandhi Well-Known Member

    Fran -

    I just saw this. I am so sorry to hear about your mom but glad that she did it on her own terms. You are a special person; I still remember the time you called and spent over an hour on the phone with me because it was obvious from my posts that my life was spiraling out of control. Your kindness really helped me and I have never forgotten it. I hope that you and your family gain strength from your mom's life and draw together.

    Sven
     
  5. tawnya

    tawnya New Member

    So sorry, Fran.

    It's a huge loss when you lose your mother.
     
  6. Sorry to learn the sad news. It's hard to lose your mother. I'm glad she was in her home with her people -- there is some comfort there. Extra prayers for you, and much love.
     
  7. Ephchap

    Ephchap Active Member

    Sending lots of love and hugs, Fran.
    Deb
     
  8. SRL

    SRL Active Member

    I'm sorry for your loss. Your mother was so fortunate to have you and other family members who would let her go in her own way.

    Gentle hugs to you. It's always such a bittersweet time gathering with family--I pray it will be a special time being all together.

    SRL
     
  9. smallworld

    smallworld Moderator

    Fran, words offer little solace at a time like this, but know that your friends here are keeping you and your family in their thoughts today and in the days and weeks ahead. May your mother's memory be a blessing. Sending many gentle hugs to you across the miles.
     
  10. DDD

    DDD Well-Known Member

    I'm sorry for your loss and yet happy to read that she was able to go as she wanted to go and that she had justifiable pride in the family she raised. Hugs. DDD
     
  11. ML

    ML Guest

    Oh Fran I am so sorry for your loss. We love you so much. Please know that we are here for you.
     
  12. KTMom91

    KTMom91 Well-Known Member

    Many, many hugs, Fran. I'm so sorry.
     
  13. Lothlorien

    Lothlorien Active Member

    Oh gosh...Fran, I'm so sorry to hear about your mom. Sending many, many hugs!
     
  14. nvts

    nvts Active Member

    From New York - Please know that you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers...may God cradle all of you in one hand while he accepts your Mom with the other...

    Beth
     
  15. trinityroyal

    trinityroyal Well-Known Member

    Fran, I am so very sorry for your loss. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. Sending many gentle hugs.
    Trinity
     
  16. Fran,

    I also am so sorry for your loss. Many thoughts and prayers are coming your way, and I'm adding mine as well.

    Valerie
     
  17. ctmom05

    ctmom05 Member

    Fran,

    I'm sending my condolences and support your way. I'm terribly sorry for your loss.
     
  18. TerryJ2

    TerryJ2 Well-Known Member

    Aw, Fran, I'm sorry. Many many hugs, and happy memories as well.
     
  19. ThreeShadows

    ThreeShadows Quid me anxia?

    I'm so sorry, Fran. I'm glad she passed on her own terms, rather than at an hospital. She must have been a great lady because she certainly raised you right.
     
  20. Jena

    Jena New Member

    sorry i'm late haven't been on.

    Fran i'm so sorry the loss of a parent is one of the hardest things.

    sending you lots of hugs and support ((hugs))