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<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 759165" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p>Dear Helpless</p><p> </p><p>I think you need to change your name on this site because you are not acting in the least bit helpless. I think you are completely in command and exude strength, purpose, love and power. I agree 100 percent with your thinking. The only thing I would do is tell your husband. I think sharing what you know of the reality will give you more strength and a united front. </p><p></p><p>You and your husband have been wonderful. In one sense this has all worked out wonderfully. You repeatedly opened your home and hearts to your son. He is now legally an adult. He has proved that he can work and support himself. He is entitled to live as he wishes and he chooses. Just not in your home with his young brothers and sisters and you. He needs to go on Jan 2. I would not speak to him more about it. What is there to say? He is on alert that you know. The only hope is that he will check himself for 3 more weeks. </p><p></p><p>I don't think you fell for his lies. I think you acted from mother love and hope and responsibility. I do believe he tried. But over and over again he did what he wanted; when and where and how. He's full of himself and his power. I have written it before. Life will teach him what a mother can't. He is hard headed. I think he meant well. He's just young and stupid. He will learn. But he won't learn from you or with you. I wish I had learned this lesson sooner. </p><p></p><p>You did nothing wrong. You did everything right.</p><p></p><p>Love, Copa</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 759165, member: 18958"] Dear Helpless I think you need to change your name on this site because you are not acting in the least bit helpless. I think you are completely in command and exude strength, purpose, love and power. I agree 100 percent with your thinking. The only thing I would do is tell your husband. I think sharing what you know of the reality will give you more strength and a united front. You and your husband have been wonderful. In one sense this has all worked out wonderfully. You repeatedly opened your home and hearts to your son. He is now legally an adult. He has proved that he can work and support himself. He is entitled to live as he wishes and he chooses. Just not in your home with his young brothers and sisters and you. He needs to go on Jan 2. I would not speak to him more about it. What is there to say? He is on alert that you know. The only hope is that he will check himself for 3 more weeks. I don't think you fell for his lies. I think you acted from mother love and hope and responsibility. I do believe he tried. But over and over again he did what he wanted; when and where and how. He's full of himself and his power. I have written it before. Life will teach him what a mother can't. He is hard headed. I think he meant well. He's just young and stupid. He will learn. But he won't learn from you or with you. I wish I had learned this lesson sooner. You did nothing wrong. You did everything right. Love, Copa [/QUOTE]
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