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Coping with adult daughter Borderline (BPD)
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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 701220" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>I suggest buying the book "Walking on Eggshells." if your daughter is truly borderline, grandchild or not, they are normally so erratic and unpredictable that nobody can really have a normal relationship with them long term. They are too volatile and unstable and often lack empathy and can be cruel. Some even show rage and violence.</p><p></p><p>if she is abusive to your grandson call CPS. if she just wont let you see him at times, there is probably not much you can do. Be loving to him when she allows you to see him. Expect her to use him as a punishment though. I doubt I told you anything you dont already know. medications dont work with borderlines slthough they often substance abuse.</p><p></p><p>im really sorry you have to deal with this. Few borderlines are willing to admit they are different, let alone willing to do the extremely hard, long work in DBT therapy that it takes to improve. They need to want to desperately change and to be aware that something is wrong with them. I suggest you detach from her, her drama, and her abuse and enjoy tje people in your life who love and appreciate you abd will be kind to you. This is not probably ever going to be your daughter but she is not the only person in your life. You need to be good to yourself too.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 701220, member: 1550"] I suggest buying the book "Walking on Eggshells." if your daughter is truly borderline, grandchild or not, they are normally so erratic and unpredictable that nobody can really have a normal relationship with them long term. They are too volatile and unstable and often lack empathy and can be cruel. Some even show rage and violence. if she is abusive to your grandson call CPS. if she just wont let you see him at times, there is probably not much you can do. Be loving to him when she allows you to see him. Expect her to use him as a punishment though. I doubt I told you anything you dont already know. medications dont work with borderlines slthough they often substance abuse. im really sorry you have to deal with this. Few borderlines are willing to admit they are different, let alone willing to do the extremely hard, long work in DBT therapy that it takes to improve. They need to want to desperately change and to be aware that something is wrong with them. I suggest you detach from her, her drama, and her abuse and enjoy tje people in your life who love and appreciate you abd will be kind to you. This is not probably ever going to be your daughter but she is not the only person in your life. You need to be good to yourself too. [/QUOTE]
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