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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 731251" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Scapegoats can never do anything right and if they try to explain their point of view or if they try to explain something that is wrongfully being tossed around about you to the other family vultures, nobody listens. Scapegoats can't win discussions with the windbags so why try? I tried too long and never once did it work even a little. Nobody cares what the scapegoat feels, thinks, or cares about or if the scapegoat is hurt by them. It's too bad for the scapegoat...so there is no point at all in trying to talk about anything to your dysfunctional FOO if you are the scapegoat. I wish I had walked away. Not one of them, except my grandma and my father ever cared if I shed a tear. A one sided love can not work.</p><p></p><p>Nobody else. Nobody. Nada.</p><p></p><p>If I were a man I would have picked my own last name and legally changed it. I tell businesses, like credit card companies, that my mother's maiden name is the last name of my first husband. I never use that loathed maiden name my mother had. It reminds me of her and my Uncle who called me "the brat" when I was very young. Yes, my mother let him call me that.</p><p></p><p> I threw out my family photo albums. That was symbalic. I have many pictures of my father with MY family and kept a few of my grandma with me as a little girl. The rest were burned with the trash long ago.</p><p></p><p>I feel no sadness over this. They are not my family. I do think things change in the spirit world, after we pass on snd i totally believe in the spirit world, but nothing can change here. I need to focus on my loved ones and true family. Bill can do the same.</p><p></p><p>Copa, I so hope the hurt is over for you...I am well aware you suffered too. We are many. Since my dad passed I have been thinking about my FOO again, but now it is that I can finally be free of them and talk about them here, the only place I do, without worrying that my sister will upset my father, who knew nothing about the internet, by telling him that I am spilling family secrets. And showing him pages that he doesnt understand. Never ever have I given identities away and nobody here knows who I am discussing. I do not talk about FOO to people who know her as she does about me (not that I care what her friends think).</p><p></p><p>I am free.</p><p></p><p>Love and light.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 731251, member: 1550"] Scapegoats can never do anything right and if they try to explain their point of view or if they try to explain something that is wrongfully being tossed around about you to the other family vultures, nobody listens. Scapegoats can't win discussions with the windbags so why try? I tried too long and never once did it work even a little. Nobody cares what the scapegoat feels, thinks, or cares about or if the scapegoat is hurt by them. It's too bad for the scapegoat...so there is no point at all in trying to talk about anything to your dysfunctional FOO if you are the scapegoat. I wish I had walked away. Not one of them, except my grandma and my father ever cared if I shed a tear. A one sided love can not work. Nobody else. Nobody. Nada. If I were a man I would have picked my own last name and legally changed it. I tell businesses, like credit card companies, that my mother's maiden name is the last name of my first husband. I never use that loathed maiden name my mother had. It reminds me of her and my Uncle who called me "the brat" when I was very young. Yes, my mother let him call me that. I threw out my family photo albums. That was symbalic. I have many pictures of my father with MY family and kept a few of my grandma with me as a little girl. The rest were burned with the trash long ago. I feel no sadness over this. They are not my family. I do think things change in the spirit world, after we pass on snd i totally believe in the spirit world, but nothing can change here. I need to focus on my loved ones and true family. Bill can do the same. Copa, I so hope the hurt is over for you...I am well aware you suffered too. We are many. Since my dad passed I have been thinking about my FOO again, but now it is that I can finally be free of them and talk about them here, the only place I do, without worrying that my sister will upset my father, who knew nothing about the internet, by telling him that I am spilling family secrets. And showing him pages that he doesnt understand. Never ever have I given identities away and nobody here knows who I am discussing. I do not talk about FOO to people who know her as she does about me (not that I care what her friends think). I am free. Love and light. [/QUOTE]
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