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Don’t want to be B’s mom anymore
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<blockquote data-quote="Tired out" data-source="post: 739863" data-attributes="member: 23103"><p>Oh B's mom.. I want to give you a big hug. You are dealing with such a hard situation. I know you love him and don't want him in your house --I can relate. that is how I feel about my 21 yr old son. I love him. I do not want him here. At least not the way he acted when he was living here. I agree with they others (I don't posses a medical degree) but oh heck..your boy is autistic. My son (not the difficult one) goes to a day workshop where there are many autistic people. The behavior you described I have seen many times on the day-hab side of the workshop. The 2 sides of the place have to be separated by a wall to keep the physically disables separate from those with violent tendencies.</p><p>In the states if parents push and threaten a lawyer things happen quicker. In our schools there is a thing called due process that will cause the school district to contract with outside psychologist to do an evaluation. Then even if the school seems to be trying but you disagree with their treatment you can say "no, I want an outside evaluation or we are going for due process"Due process is more expensive than the school going ahead and having a new evaluation and you have input of who will do the evaluation.</p><p>I don't know if any of this helps you. I used to be a parent advocate here and it always scared e at how the school districts tried to hde rights fro parents.</p><p>Prayer and good wishes and good luck for you. I would call the facility and tell then you won't accept him back to your home at this time. He is too much of a threat to the 8 year old.period. They can't make you come get him. they can't put him out on the road.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Tired out, post: 739863, member: 23103"] Oh B's mom.. I want to give you a big hug. You are dealing with such a hard situation. I know you love him and don't want him in your house --I can relate. that is how I feel about my 21 yr old son. I love him. I do not want him here. At least not the way he acted when he was living here. I agree with they others (I don't posses a medical degree) but oh heck..your boy is autistic. My son (not the difficult one) goes to a day workshop where there are many autistic people. The behavior you described I have seen many times on the day-hab side of the workshop. The 2 sides of the place have to be separated by a wall to keep the physically disables separate from those with violent tendencies. In the states if parents push and threaten a lawyer things happen quicker. In our schools there is a thing called due process that will cause the school district to contract with outside psychologist to do an evaluation. Then even if the school seems to be trying but you disagree with their treatment you can say "no, I want an outside evaluation or we are going for due process"Due process is more expensive than the school going ahead and having a new evaluation and you have input of who will do the evaluation. I don't know if any of this helps you. I used to be a parent advocate here and it always scared e at how the school districts tried to hde rights fro parents. Prayer and good wishes and good luck for you. I would call the facility and tell then you won't accept him back to your home at this time. He is too much of a threat to the 8 year old.period. They can't make you come get him. they can't put him out on the road. [/QUOTE]
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