So now my parents are aware that Dez is pregnant, again. They want us to loan her our car for the next two weeks until they can lend her theirs. I told her no she can't use our car and that we are already letting her stay until the end of September and that this whole situation is causing be so much stress. It seems like she's trying but for how long. She had plenty of time to get things together and now here we are. My granddaughter was born 3 years ago, so she's literally done nothing since then. She's worked at strip clubs and that's about it. I honestly feel guilty by not loaning her the car, but I feel we've been helping the past 3 years and still nothing plus I'm letting her stay at our house until the end of September. I feel I'm doing something to help by giving her a place to stay and food to eat until then. I still feel sad. I feel like if she fails it will be my fault. I don't want to put any more engery into this, but I can't help but feel upset. I am sure my mom will be calling me soon.