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<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 758457" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p>Dear NewIstart</p><p></p><p>I don't like it that your daughter is fantasizing about your death and that of your husband. Not one bit. I think you've done the right thing to secure the house and to change your routine. I think moving wouldn't be a mistake either. </p><p></p><p>It sounds like the distance you've created is exactly the right thing for you. I believe your daughter loves and needs you, but she has been toxic for you for a long time. I applaud your firm boundaries. Our children need to be taking care of themselves before they're safe for us to be around. Stable on medication, ditching deadbeat boyfriends, in drug treatment, etc., come to mind. </p><p></p><p>I have set all kinds of ultimatums and rules for my son. He's not met one. I have learned my lesson (I hope.).I can love him from afar.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 758457, member: 18958"] Dear NewIstart I don't like it that your daughter is fantasizing about your death and that of your husband. Not one bit. I think you've done the right thing to secure the house and to change your routine. I think moving wouldn't be a mistake either. It sounds like the distance you've created is exactly the right thing for you. I believe your daughter loves and needs you, but she has been toxic for you for a long time. I applaud your firm boundaries. Our children need to be taking care of themselves before they're safe for us to be around. Stable on medication, ditching deadbeat boyfriends, in drug treatment, etc., come to mind. I have set all kinds of ultimatums and rules for my son. He's not met one. I have learned my lesson (I hope.).I can love him from afar. [/QUOTE]
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