Well, husband and I are still at the cabin and relaxing. I cant remember the last time we were so close or so relaxed. The only people who can reach us by our cabin phone are son and daughter. They have largely left us alone to rest. My daughter called last night to make sure we are okay. She is not Kay but my other one. We had a short loving conversation. When we were finished my.husband and I walked along tje beach(holding hands!) and had a heartfelt conversation about the kids. My husband is very soft spoken and honest and sadly told me that although it had never been rhis way untill Kay was at least in her mid twenties, he did not love her anymore in the same way or as much as he loved our other two. We didnt discuss it for long but I thought it over and said "I feel the same way. Her personality is off-putting and selfish and she never asks how anyone else is feeling.." its true too. I am not on vacation to feel guilty but I do. Does anyone else share diffferences in how you love your kids? We love Kay but she is not pleasant and is not a good mother to Jaden. We adore Jaden to the moon when we are allowed to see him. That is not often. Any thoughts? Feelings? Is it just us?