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<blockquote data-quote="Fairy dust" data-source="post: 757628" data-attributes="member: 25457"><p>I am so sorry you feel this way. I have been in your shoes. Due to safety concerns we had to remove our son at the age of 16. We had a daughter who was then 14 and who was being so negatively impacted by the behaviours of our son, he was violent to all of us. to ease my guilt I ensured he had access to housing and social welfare. Two years later we allowed him to move back in. Honeymoon for 6 months and then worse behaviours surfaced. He is now 32 and still needs to grow up. our family imploded, and husband and I divorced. the guilt of being a « failed » mom took me down and it wasn’t until I got into some serious therapy that I could begin to recover. Please think of the rest of your family and get some help for you. Your son needs to prove in a very big way that he has changed. Think of the guilt that you would feel if he harmed your other kids. His behaviour is his choice, not yours. Hugs to you.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Fairy dust, post: 757628, member: 25457"] I am so sorry you feel this way. I have been in your shoes. Due to safety concerns we had to remove our son at the age of 16. We had a daughter who was then 14 and who was being so negatively impacted by the behaviours of our son, he was violent to all of us. to ease my guilt I ensured he had access to housing and social welfare. Two years later we allowed him to move back in. Honeymoon for 6 months and then worse behaviours surfaced. He is now 32 and still needs to grow up. our family imploded, and husband and I divorced. the guilt of being a « failed » mom took me down and it wasn’t until I got into some serious therapy that I could begin to recover. Please think of the rest of your family and get some help for you. Your son needs to prove in a very big way that he has changed. Think of the guilt that you would feel if he harmed your other kids. His behaviour is his choice, not yours. Hugs to you. [/QUOTE]
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