Against my daughter. We took a trip cross country back to our hometown. That is where we are now. She saw friends she hasn't seen in 10 years. They were so excited to see her, took her out and treated her well. Did any of that really phase her? No. Why? Because she was stuck talking to the boyfriend via phone. I can just picture her out with her friends, leaving the bar to go outside and call him. I can just picture her just finding a corner to text him from for a long period of time while her friends were waiting for her. They took her to a concert tonight and when they dropped her off, I peeked outside the door and she was in that "mood" and they were trying to say goodbye to her and she just completely ignored them, walked away , came in , went right downstairs to call him. How disgustingly rude is that? She is beyond obssesive and that obssession that she has, frankly, and i hate to say it and I'm sorry if it upsets anyone, makes me want to knock her teeth right down her throat. I can't stand the hold that they have on each other. It is so unbreakable. It really makes me sad and angry that so many people go do so much for her, including me and she disrupts all of it with this complete utter bull****. Completely humilating herself because she does act emotional unstable. She gets into this "zone" when boyfriend is capping her head up and nothing breaks it. She will walk out on her job, people, her family, friends anything, just to deal with him, this no good piece of dirt. Sometimes I get to the point where I am like you know what, go back to him, get abused and beat. I don't give two ****! I am about to be done with her and kick her out. FOUR years of this eratic, violent relationship and not to mention her teenge years from hell. I read all of our stories and I think to myself, why the hell do we deal with all of this? Why stop our lives, get no sleep, worried all the time, for kids who are hell bent on destroying their lives? My parents didn't entertain fools and that meant their children more so. We were all kicked out before the age of 18 and they did NOT care or rescue us from our bad mistakes. You think my parents cared or cried or begged us when we were messing up our lives? LOL LOL LOL. Yeah.............. RIGHT. Why can't I be as strong as they were? All of what our kids do is foolishness. Straight up foolishness. Insolence. I love my daughter to the ends of the earth but this, this is enough. I can't rescue her from herself. I swear, the only reason why boyfriend wants daughter in his life is to ruin hers.