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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 745521" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>I stopped when you said "hurts animals." That is a very serious trait and yes is common in future abusers and has nothing to do wirh ADHD. Nothing. Its in the realm of Conduct Disorder and if she also pees and poops inappropriately and/or is interested in fire, those are the three danger traits for children who are headed for BIG problems and need extreme counseling. Its called The McDonald Triangle. We adopted a child who killed two dogs. He probably started out just hurting them. Guess what else he ended up.doing? He sexually abused our two babies and was taken away and we never saw him again. But the county pressed charges at age 13 and he was found guilty of first degree assault sexual of a child six years younger than him.</p><p></p><p>Being mean to animals is never in any way normal. I hope you have no animals. If you do, rehome them before there is a tragedy. Then get super help for this kid. See a private psychiatrist. Schools dont hire the best and most skilled. There is hope with good help as she is so young, but the possible potential for her to become dangerous needs to be addressed TODAY.</p><p></p><p>This type of behavior is more in common children adopted at older ages, from contentious divorces where main caregivers change a lot in the first three years and when they see chaos and abuse from 0-5. Also....i know this probablg doesnt apply to you but ingesting drugs or alcohol in the womb causes all sorts of problems and messes with the brain. +Yoy said to bebhonest. ThisTis very importanta mif youydrank or usedudrugs at all during your pregnancy). We adopted one boy with drugs in his system at birth. He is wonderful but he does have high functioning autism. It could have been much worse. Drugs on the brain of a developing fetus,cause problems. One bu ge of alcohol can do it....brain damage. </p><p></p><p>I truly hope you heed the warning regarding getting professional help fir your daughter. You are not a profesdional. You cant help her alone. I dont want your little girl to even have a chance of ending up like this boy, who was 13 when he had to leave. He later admitted to doing horrible things by age 5 and the adults never knew.</p><p></p><p> These types of kids are sneaky and deny fault like Golden Globe acting winners when accused of something really horrible. You will find it hard not to believe the denial. </p><p></p><p>A third party psychiatrist or psychologist must get involved and be told everything. Kids open up with time....it takes sometimes much time but they have to do it, not you. Dont try. You dont know how and are too close emotionally to the situation </p><p></p><p>Sending prayers! The medications are not going to solve this particular issue.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 745521, member: 1550"] I stopped when you said "hurts animals." That is a very serious trait and yes is common in future abusers and has nothing to do wirh ADHD. Nothing. Its in the realm of Conduct Disorder and if she also pees and poops inappropriately and/or is interested in fire, those are the three danger traits for children who are headed for BIG problems and need extreme counseling. Its called The McDonald Triangle. We adopted a child who killed two dogs. He probably started out just hurting them. Guess what else he ended up.doing? He sexually abused our two babies and was taken away and we never saw him again. But the county pressed charges at age 13 and he was found guilty of first degree assault sexual of a child six years younger than him. Being mean to animals is never in any way normal. I hope you have no animals. If you do, rehome them before there is a tragedy. Then get super help for this kid. See a private psychiatrist. Schools dont hire the best and most skilled. There is hope with good help as she is so young, but the possible potential for her to become dangerous needs to be addressed TODAY. This type of behavior is more in common children adopted at older ages, from contentious divorces where main caregivers change a lot in the first three years and when they see chaos and abuse from 0-5. Also....i know this probablg doesnt apply to you but ingesting drugs or alcohol in the womb causes all sorts of problems and messes with the brain. +Yoy said to bebhonest. ThisTis very importanta mif youydrank or usedudrugs at all during your pregnancy). We adopted one boy with drugs in his system at birth. He is wonderful but he does have high functioning autism. It could have been much worse. Drugs on the brain of a developing fetus,cause problems. One bu ge of alcohol can do it....brain damage. I truly hope you heed the warning regarding getting professional help fir your daughter. You are not a profesdional. You cant help her alone. I dont want your little girl to even have a chance of ending up like this boy, who was 13 when he had to leave. He later admitted to doing horrible things by age 5 and the adults never knew. These types of kids are sneaky and deny fault like Golden Globe acting winners when accused of something really horrible. You will find it hard not to believe the denial. A third party psychiatrist or psychologist must get involved and be told everything. Kids open up with time....it takes sometimes much time but they have to do it, not you. Dont try. You dont know how and are too close emotionally to the situation Sending prayers! The medications are not going to solve this particular issue. [/QUOTE]
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