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<blockquote data-quote="Big Bad Kitty" data-source="post: 89478" data-attributes="member: 3647"><p>:hammer: Susan. Come ON. :rolleyes: </p><p></p><p></p><p><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: standswithcourage</div><div class="ubbcode-body">I just hate that my difficult child has to go through this again. I dont know what will happen to him now. I have run out of ideas - anyway they are not helping him.</div></div></p><p></p><p></p><p>"I just hate that my difficult child has to go through this again". Susan, this time, let him go through it ALL the way through, ALL by himself, and it very well may be the last time that he has to go through it.</p><p></p><p>"I don't know what will happen to him now". Well they are not going to ship him off to Alaska or anything rash like that. But what they do to him is not your concern. Detach!</p><p></p><p>"I have run out of ideas". Ideas for what? Enabling him? Enough already! Go knit!!</p><p></p><p>"Anyway they are not helping him". Come on. He is not drinking or drugging right now, is he? He is in the best place he can possibly be right now. Three hots and a cot, no dope, and he is not aggravating you at all.</p><p></p><p></p><p>Try looking at this from a different point of view than "aww, your poor baby". He is a grown man, a criminal, and the streets are safer with him off of them. Seriously. He is not going to die in jail. It is best that he is not calling you, you should not be talking to him anyways, or he would be begging to be bailed out.</p><p></p><p>Stop obsessing over him. He is fine.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Big Bad Kitty, post: 89478, member: 3647"] [img]:hammer:[/img] Susan. Come ON. [img]:rolleyes:[/img] <div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: standswithcourage</div><div class="ubbcode-body">I just hate that my difficult child has to go through this again. I dont know what will happen to him now. I have run out of ideas - anyway they are not helping him.</div></div> "I just hate that my difficult child has to go through this again". Susan, this time, let him go through it ALL the way through, ALL by himself, and it very well may be the last time that he has to go through it. "I don't know what will happen to him now". Well they are not going to ship him off to Alaska or anything rash like that. But what they do to him is not your concern. Detach! "I have run out of ideas". Ideas for what? Enabling him? Enough already! Go knit!! "Anyway they are not helping him". Come on. He is not drinking or drugging right now, is he? He is in the best place he can possibly be right now. Three hots and a cot, no dope, and he is not aggravating you at all. Try looking at this from a different point of view than "aww, your poor baby". He is a grown man, a criminal, and the streets are safer with him off of them. Seriously. He is not going to die in jail. It is best that he is not calling you, you should not be talking to him anyways, or he would be begging to be bailed out. Stop obsessing over him. He is fine. [/QUOTE]
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