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<blockquote data-quote="newstart" data-source="post: 761704" data-attributes="member: 22416"><p><em>Hi Nomad & BusynMember, Good to hear from you. I agree just blow off my Cluster B sister in law. I have read that some Cluster B people do get better with age and I was hoping this was the case with her. My husband, her brother had warned me about 'opening that bag of worms' because he was truly done with her. I opened them because I though not talking to her for 20 years would let her know we were serious. It did not make one bit of difference, she is still the same nasty vile person.</em></p><p><em></em></p><p><em>I think the reason I feel so much hurt is because I told my daughter that her dad and I have enough of everything and we do not expect her to get us anything. I had first showed her the turquoise jacket picture, not for her to buy it for me but to ask what she thought of it, her opinion. She was the one that said she will be giving me that jacket for Christmas. </em></p><p><em>The reason it hit so hard is because there are times when she is ok, and I relax thinking she is older maybe her higher thinking will kick in but no Cluster B is Cluster B. It maybe easier if she was nasty all the time and did not have these small windows of time when she is actually enjoyable. So this off/on thing is truly awful and hard to predict.</em></p><p><em></em></p><p><em>I have read your posts, and Nomad your daughter has caused a major nightmare.</em></p><p><em>A few years ago our town flooded. My daughter took in a bunch of people that got flooded out and their dogs. Such a nice thing to do in our rent house. I did not say much because we all were helping each other but when it was time for them to leave they did not want to go. I think she thought we would pay the bills since she was doing such a good deed. She would complain to me about them not leaving, I stayed out of it because I thought if it gave her enough grief maybe she would think twice about letting a bunch of people live off her. They were not the best of people and did not contribute with anything just took everything. She ended up giving them most of her furniture, not thinking that maybe she will need that furniture in the future. </em></p><p><em>I have no idea how she finally got them to leave. She later got a male roommate that helped out a little bit but put more wear and tear on the house. He helped with food a little and a few bucks here and there and but he also stayed way too long. He did not pay rent.</em></p><p><em>The house will be paid off in a few short years. I hope she can hang on that long. Each year is a challenge. She will be 40 in April. No way would she even be living in a house if it were not for us. We put a large down payment on the house so her monthly bills would be doable. She has looked into moving several times and realized she would be living in a slum compared to her nice home in a nice neighborhood.</em></p><p><em>Happy New Year.</em></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="newstart, post: 761704, member: 22416"] [I]Hi Nomad & BusynMember, Good to hear from you. I agree just blow off my Cluster B sister in law. I have read that some Cluster B people do get better with age and I was hoping this was the case with her. My husband, her brother had warned me about 'opening that bag of worms' because he was truly done with her. I opened them because I though not talking to her for 20 years would let her know we were serious. It did not make one bit of difference, she is still the same nasty vile person. I think the reason I feel so much hurt is because I told my daughter that her dad and I have enough of everything and we do not expect her to get us anything. I had first showed her the turquoise jacket picture, not for her to buy it for me but to ask what she thought of it, her opinion. She was the one that said she will be giving me that jacket for Christmas. The reason it hit so hard is because there are times when she is ok, and I relax thinking she is older maybe her higher thinking will kick in but no Cluster B is Cluster B. It maybe easier if she was nasty all the time and did not have these small windows of time when she is actually enjoyable. So this off/on thing is truly awful and hard to predict. I have read your posts, and Nomad your daughter has caused a major nightmare. A few years ago our town flooded. My daughter took in a bunch of people that got flooded out and their dogs. Such a nice thing to do in our rent house. I did not say much because we all were helping each other but when it was time for them to leave they did not want to go. I think she thought we would pay the bills since she was doing such a good deed. She would complain to me about them not leaving, I stayed out of it because I thought if it gave her enough grief maybe she would think twice about letting a bunch of people live off her. They were not the best of people and did not contribute with anything just took everything. She ended up giving them most of her furniture, not thinking that maybe she will need that furniture in the future. I have no idea how she finally got them to leave. She later got a male roommate that helped out a little bit but put more wear and tear on the house. He helped with food a little and a few bucks here and there and but he also stayed way too long. He did not pay rent. The house will be paid off in a few short years. I hope she can hang on that long. Each year is a challenge. She will be 40 in April. No way would she even be living in a house if it were not for us. We put a large down payment on the house so her monthly bills would be doable. She has looked into moving several times and realized she would be living in a slum compared to her nice home in a nice neighborhood. Happy New Year.[/I] [/QUOTE]
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